Do you ever feel like your decisions in love are made from fleeting, passionate emotions instead of rationality? Are you finding yourself getting hurt often and easily, maybe easier than ever before? Here’s what to do about that. 

WHAT YOU WILL LEARN:

– How to go from feelings to action

– Your self-image as a woman

– Taking intelligent actions and having a REAL strategy

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Speaker1: [00:00:03] Hello and welcome.

Speaker2: [00:00:05] To single The Soulmate Podcast where we help you, the love warrior or love word to be to go from single to with your soulmate. Living the life of your dreams. So do you feel too much? That’s a question, right? Is it possible to feel too much? Well, it can be if the way you take actions when it comes to your love life, when it comes to meeting men, when it comes to your boundaries with men or anybody else, is do you move from feeling to action? From feeling to action? So one of the beautiful things about being a human being on this planet is we have feelings, we have emotions, we have intuition. This stuff is valuable, this is important. This is so important that we get in touch with our feelings. But what happens is when you find yourself going from bad relationship to bad relationship, from being off what we call your picker is off, right? Your picker is off or broken or non-existent. What’s happening is you’re going from feeling to action. You feel a certain chemistry, you do something about it. You feel turned off, you feel concerned, you feel fear. You just act in like to shrink back and stuff like that and it’s not informed enough. What you want to do is go from thinking and having a strategy about what it is you’re doing, the decisions that you’re making to feeling where you’re checking in with your intuition, and then you’re acting because then you’ll know what needs to happen.

Speaker2: [00:01:43] But you’ll also be looking at How are you thinking? Because your intuition will suggest to you that you should take a certain action. But without starting with the thinking part, then you’re not looking at how are you thinking about the situation? And so this is so important. How are you thinking about the situation? Well, that’s informed by your self image. That’s informed by your decision making framework or your picker. That’s informed on whether you think of yourself as a person who’s just consumer in our society, just a worker bee in our society, just a consumer of other people’s ideas and beliefs, and that what other people that have talked crap about you, that somehow driving your thoughts about yourself and about what’s possible for you in your life, keep in mind that your self image as a single woman has to shift and change in order for you to be able to be a happy wife and mother to the man of your dreams. In order for you to have the man of your dreams, you have to believe that you actually are the woman of a man’s dreams, not just a knucklehead, guys dreams, but the woman of a man who you actually want a high quality man. That’s your self image that you work on before he shows up so that it feels natural, normal, effortless, and not like, Oh my God, I hit the lotto, you know, things like that. He should be thinking that he hit the lotto.

Speaker2: [00:03:14] And being with you, that’s keeping the masculine feminine dynamic in proper balance. And I talk about in other podcast episodes where we talk about you are the prize. So remember if you’re feeling too much, you’re going from feeling to action. When you’re more in control of yourself, when you’re more feeling confident, it’s because you’re thinking. And your thinking comes from a self image that is in alignment with what it is that you want. A decision making framework that is clear, easy to implement in every situation, understandable to you and make sense, and takes into account both your mind and your heart. Meaning your picker, right? Your picker is actually fixed. And then you’re allowing yourself to think like a woman, like a creator of life, and not just a consumer of life, like a creator of experiences, not just a consumer of others experiences like a creator of magic and miracles, not just a person who is at the effect of the circumstances and situations in the world that tell you that you cannot have, you cannot be, you cannot live the life that you want, because we’re here to tell you that you can in a way that’s in alignment with what you want, feel fully where you’re in touch with your intuition and not coming from a place of fear. And then take intelligent action with wise strategy. And you can have the life of your dreams and live with the love that you may not be able to imagine right now.

Speaker1: [00:04:41] Hey, thanks for tuning in to today’s episode. If you’re a single professional woman who wants your success in your love life to match your success in your career, and you’re looking to get crystal clear right now about why true love hasn’t been knocking on your door and how to have that happen sooner rather than later. Like, not literally though, that would be weird, but I hope you know what I’m saying. Anyway, you’re going to want a book, a call, a love breakthrough clarity call right now with my dear wife, Dr. Lara. Yes. Lara herself will get on the phone or Skype with you one on one to assess exactly what’s been holding you back and love what it is you really want and how to get there as quickly as possible. Just go to single to soulmate dot com forward slash call to book a call that single to soulmate dot com forward slash call for free love breakthrough clarity call that is for you if and only if you’re a single professional woman who is as serious about her love life right now as you’ve been about getting your degree or your career success. So again, that’s single soulmate dot com forward slash call to book your life changing love breakthrough clarity call right away.

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