Are you aware that you’re a role model? This has nothing to do with whether you have kids or not, but about the people that are close to you. You might not realize it- but your life impacts ALL those around you. Listen to this episode to find out how and why you NEED to know how to use that power wisely.

WHAT YOU WILL LEARN:

– WHY and HOW you are a role model

– How you can inspire other people

– Why finding your soulmate will have a positive impact on people close to you

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Speaker1: [00:00:03] Hello and welcome to the Single Soulmate Podcast.

Speaker2: [00:00:06] Where we help you, the love warrior or love warrior to be to become your own soulmate first as the path to the life of your dreams with your soulmate by your side.

Speaker1: [00:00:21] You know, you’re a role model, don’t you? That’s what I want to talk about today, is you’re being a role model. And a lot of times people are aware that they’re a role model. Maybe they’re a single mom, maybe you’re a single mom. We work with a lot of single moms, but sometimes you don’t realize that you’re a role model to people around you. Even when you’re not a mom, you know you’re a role model to nieces, nephews, you’re a role model to neighbors, your role model to your coworkers, you’re a role model to friends. And I want to give you one example of how you’re a role model. So a little while ago, we had a day where Laura and I were getting together with some clients and our advanced program clients who become loved warriors with us. They become like friends. We get closed. We get to know your life, your life circumstance, whatever, because our advanced program has a lot of personal connection with us. And so anyway, we were getting together with Nancy and her husband, Jonathan, and Rachel and her sweetheart Khalid and Angelica and her sweetheart Mario. And we were getting together for a we’re going to do a little bit of time in our little town of Benicia, and then we’re going to go to just some fun, have lunch, and then go to a fun activity of this thing called an escape room, which is like a kind of like a Rubik’s Cube thing with hints and clues like the game of clue, sort of, but in a room itself, really awesome.

Speaker1: [00:02:09] Anyway, so that was going to be our day. Well, we got surprised when we went for our walk on our little pier of Benicia that Mario had actually been planning a proposal for Angelica. And he proposed to her right there in front of everybody and got it on video and stuff like that. Had asked Jonathan actually to record the video and it was incredible. It was so humbling. It was just so exciting and such a an incredible blessing to be a part of that, because we have clients that are, you know, getting proposed to left and right, getting married left and right. But to actually be there when he’s like down on one knee and seeing her crying. And at one point she was like, Oh, shit, this is really happening. It was so great. And but here’s the thing. The reason why I’m sharing that with you in this context of what we’re talking about, about your being a role model. Nancy is a chiropractor, and she came to us after having success professionally and then realizing like, okay, so I’m successful professionally, but, you know, this area of my life is not really working and not like she was like, you know, some mega multi millionaire or something like that, but she was a professional who was doing well and knew her craft.

Speaker1: [00:03:42] When I say successful and she’s just an awesome, awesome person, super friendly, very caring about people and a great chiropractor, patients love her. So she came to us, worked with us and then met her sweetheart, Jonathan. They got married. Well, here’s the thing. Her patients ask her, like, well, you got this great guy. How did you find him? Stuff like that. And one of her patients was Angelica and she said, oh, Johnny and Laura and I worked with them, did their advanced program, and worked with them personally and, you know, stuff like that. Well, anyway, Angelica came and then she again she worked with us and stuff like that. And then, you know, there’s Mario. Fast forward, Mario, who’s an awesome guy, just a stand up guy. I loved it, actually. Laura and I met him at Nancy and Jonathan’s wedding, and he was just a stand up, awesome guy from minute one and just the kind of quality man that you deserve to be with. So Nancy was a role model for her patients. She already is that for health and wellness, but she has become a role model for them in terms of their relationships and how to live a fuller, better life. And so she was that role model for her patient, Angelica.

Speaker1: [00:05:08] And now Angelica is a role model for those around her friends, family members, that kind of thing. But that’s happening all the time, Rachel. Who I mention who was there. She would come back and volunteer for our events. She eventually became our event supervisor and so she was around us. She did our program, graduated from our program. She was around us a lot. And anyway, she was a role model for the women in the program and in her own life. She’s a doctor and a she’s a psychologist. I want to get that right. I can’t remember exactly because we know our clients like personally, but kind of sometimes I can forget the professions. But anyway, she’s a doctor and she got her doctorate while working with us in our advanced program. She says it actually helped her to finish her degree, her dissertation, all that type of stuff. But anyway, the point is that she was a role model for the women in the program as everybody in the room, because the only people in the room for the weekend and all of our advanced program events are graduates of our program, women that have really stepped into living the love warrior life. And so she was a role model for others. And you are a role model, too. You may not realize that your role model for things and for people around you in ways that you may not want to be like.

Speaker1: [00:06:40] If you’re a single mom and you’re wanting your kids to live the life of their dreams, well, the best way for you to help your kids live the life of their dreams is you live the life of your dreams, and you go for it. You go for what it is that you want in life, be it a relationship, be it a promotion at work, whatever the thing is, you go for it. And what so many women tell us in working with us in our courses and programs is that it starts to affect their life and their kids and people around them, because everybody wants to see someone going for their dreams and not just like sitting around dreaming about it and wishing for it and hoping for it, actually working toward it. And when you’re with us in our courses and programs, that’s what’s happening. You start making forward progress to it and it becomes an inspiration. But what a lot of people don’t realize is that you’re a role model for people, even in ways that you don’t want. So if you’re depriving yourself of what you really, really want in life you’re role model for, don’t go for your dreams. If you’re treating yourself as the last priority on your priority to do list, your role model for you don’t matter and what you want doesn’t matter.

Speaker1: [00:08:04] And that’s not only for kids, that’s your coworkers, that’s friends, family members. They’re looking up to you in ways that you don’t realize. So when you go for your dreams, there’s a ripple effect, right? Like, interestingly enough, Laura is a chiropractor, as you I believe I’ve shared before. And so that’s how we got started in doing what we do is that her patients looked at her and said, Wow, you guys are together. You’re so in love. How did you do that? Lara shared how? Well, I was very conscious and intentional in sharing. I was very conscious and intentional in attracting Johnny to me. He’s my soulmate. And so her patients were asking her about that. And so that’s what Nancy experienced, is that people saw that and then she shared with people. But we started that back in 2005. So we want to encourage you to recognize the role model effect that you have to recognize the ripple effect. Nancy went for her dreams. Her friends and family members around her noticed that and are going for their dreams, many of them working with us. Her patient, Angelica and others are working with us and going for their dreams. And so there’s a ripple effect from that, Nancy, as having that is profound. And you have that effect, too. The question is, is it profound or is it like I’m teaching people how to not live their dreams? I want to encourage you to live your dreams.

Speaker1: [00:09:44] I want to encourage you to go for what it is that you want. I want to encourage you to make this year, the year that you step up your commitment to yourself, your love of your self, and move yourself up the priority list. Because when you make yourself your dreams, your desires, when I talk about dreams and desires, I’m not talking about momentary wants and dreams. I’m talking about things that are been inside of you for so long that you just can’t stop it. That’s still small voice that says you deserve to have better life. You deserve to be treated better. Within this, you have so much love to give and nobody who deserves it to even give it to. You know what I mean? Where you’re loving a guy more than he loves you, you feel like frustrated because you want a committed relationship and he doesn’t move yourself up. The priority list. Allow yourself to become a love warrior. Allow yourself to claim that being a love warrior means that I’m going to go for my dreams. Allow yourself to know that when you go for your dreams, you’re having an effect on more people than you realize. And that effect can be profound. And I want to encourage you to know that you’re a role model and you make a difference.

Speaker3: [00:11:00] Thanks for tuning in to today’s episode. Hey, if you’re a single professional woman who’s had success in your career or business and you want your love life to match that success, and you’re looking to get a lot of clarity right now about why true love hasn’t been knocking on your door and more importantly, what you can do about it. Then you’re going to want to book a love breakthrough clarity call right away with one of our love breakthrough specialists. So get on the phone or zoom call with you one on one to assess exactly what’s been holding you back in love. Why is it that other people are finding love and you aren’t? And she’ll also go over with you. What is it that you really want and how can you get it as quickly as possible? Now, by the end of this compassionate and professional assessment, you’ll finally have clarity plus an immediately actionable path forward. All you have to do is go to single to soulmate dot com forward slash call to book that free call. Again, it’s single to soulmate forward slash call for complementary love breakthrough call that is for you. If you’re a single professional woman who is as serious about her love life right now as you’ve been in your life, about getting your degree or degrees, your career or business success, all of that stuff. If you want to have it all and you’re ready to finally have some clarity and get a breakthrough and actionable path forward, then this is for you again, that single soulmate dot com forward slash call to book your life changing one on one assessment call right away.

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