Finding your soulmate can feel like a lifelong quest, it’s what you’ve always wanted. So how do you know when he has finally arrived? What sets him apart? There are some signs that can help you know this.

WHAT YOU WILL LEARN:

– The signs that’ll let you know you’ve found your soulmate

– How to read this signs

– What to do once your sure you’ve found HIM

READY TO CHANGE YOUR LOVE LIFE FOR THE BETTER, FOREVER?

If you’re ready for the first step towards major transformation & true love at last, head over to https://singletosoulmate.com/call to book a FREE 1-on-1 call with Lara herself. She’ll assess exactly what’s been holding you back in love, how to get what you REALLY want, and if or how we can help you get it as quickly as possible.

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Speaker1: [00:00:03] Hello and welcome to the single The Soulmate Podcast.

Speaker2: [00:00:06] Will we help you? The Love Warrior or Love Warrior to be to become your own soulmate first as the path to the life of your dreams with your soulmate by your side. Welcome to another audio blog episode of single The Soulmate Podcast. This subject was very popular on my blog and I wanted to update it and share it as an audio blog for you here. So here we go. The seven signs you’ve met, the one. Number one. You’re not focusing on his potential. He is who he is. And you love him. If he didn’t change one bit, you’d be happy to be with him for the rest of your life. That’s it. No ifs, ands or buts to this one. You’re not focusing on his potential. Number two, who you are is good enough. You realize that you are enough exactly as you are right now. And so does he. He loves you and is awed by your presence. He finds you smart, sexy and fun to be with, and you feel cherished and safe with him. Now, this doesn’t mean that you don’t try to grow and evolve. In fact, of course, you are committed to ongoing growth, as is he. So that is number two. Who you are is good enough. The third sign that you’ve met, the one is that the two of you manage conflict well. Studies show that the healthiest relationships deal with their share of arguments. And when you do, you do your best to fight fair.

Speaker2: [00:01:45] And when you two have a disagreement or you argue if you are with the right person for you, you are both committed to communicating clearly and respectfully as possible and then moving on with resolution. Now, of course, neither one of you is perfect, and sometimes in your humanness, one of you may live for a moment by trying to be right. But there’s no verbal or physical abuse or massive control issues. And how much a couple disagrees isn’t the issue. Unless, of course, they don’t fight at all. It’s really how a couple manages conflicts that determines how well the relationship works. The fourth sign that you’ve met, the one is that there’s minimal drama or close to none at all. So when I say that there’s not a lot of drama in your relationship now, I don’t mean that the two of you never argue. When you do argue, you do your best. To be fair, you admit when you’re wrong. He admits when he’s wrong, you listen to each other. You acknowledge one another’s good points, and you apologize when you cross lines again. It’s not that you have to be perfect, but if this person is the one for you, then you are at least trying to make your conflict work for your relationship rather than against it. And part of your mutual clear intention here is to learn from your conflicts and grow stronger as a couple. So if you two are dealing with constant drama where one of you is trying to create high emotions to manipulate the other, or where there’s constant turbulence without some sort of resolution, then be careful about fully committing to the relationship at this point.

Speaker2: [00:03:33] High drama is a definite red flag when it comes to long term relationship success. That’s number four. Minimal drama or none at all. The fifth sign that you’ve met, the one is that he wants the same type of relationship that you do. Now, opposites may attract, but they rarely make for a good long term relationship. Compatibility really is key when it comes to creating a deep and lasting connection between two people. Now, of course, the two of you are not twins. You’re going to be different in lots of ways, but your preferences will be the same or very similar. For example, if you want to begin preparing for the future and building toward certain life and career goals like buying a house and having children or traveling the world. But your partner mainly wants to make enough money so that he or she can party this weekend. Then you two are probably working with fairly different priorities, and the opposite is true too. If your priorities match up well then the two of you have a much better chance of long term happiness and fulfillment together. Don’t try to cajole or manipulate him into what you want. Understand that he is who he is.

Speaker2: [00:04:53] So that’s number five. He wants the same type of relationship that you do. Okay, so number six, you respect that person deeply. Mutual respect is crucial for a healthy relationship. And without that respect, there’s simply no way to create and build a secure foundation so that you can enjoy all of the benefits of a deep, strong, growing and evolving relationship. And when you respect your partner and he respects you, the relationship has a strong chance at thriving in all the aspects of your connection actually blossom. The communication improves, the commitment deepens, the trust multiplies, the pleasure and satisfaction levels go through the roof. But that all begins with a mutual respect. That emerges because you like each other and because you appreciate the way you live your individual lives. So one way to find out a lot about him, quickly travel with him. You’ll learn a lot more than you expected. And of course, remember, he’s going to learn a lot about you as well. So when you travel with him, watch how he is with servers in restaurants. That’s this is one good way to really watch how he be in the world. Is he abrupt? Is he rude and condescending? Never saying thank you when given a drink or a plate of food or does he look them in the eyes and is respectful and kind and gracious and serve? This says a lot about a person. How they treat people who are in a service position says a lot.

Speaker2: [00:06:28] So notice that. So that’s the number six sign is that you respect the person deeply and number seven, you want to be together a lot. Now it’s no secret that when Johnny and I met, we were so into each other and we didn’t want to spend one moment away from each other. I remember just a few months. I think it was like two months after we met. I went to visit my family in Florida and as soon as I arrived to my granny’s home, I put my suitcase in the guestroom. Johnny called. This is before cell phones were. We had cell phones, but it wasn’t that long ago. But they weren’t as popular as before as they are now. Rather so he called on the landline to make sure that I was there and safe. And I’ll never forget during that visit with Granny, so many phone calls with Johnny that I had with him during my visit, again, he and I just wanted to be together and talk all the time. We had so much to share and I remember my dear granny saying to me as the phone’s ringing again and we know who it is, she says with her beautiful, lilting Southern drawl, Ya’ll got it bad. So as you try to figure out whether you found the one and ya’ll got it bad, take a look at this list. Now, while you may also have a few more vital issues that need to be in alignment, like research shows, for example, that religion and child rearing and how you relate to money and in-laws are the four biggies.

Speaker2: [00:08:01] If you can check off each of the above items, the items I just spoke about, then you owe it to yourself to allow the relationship to become all that it possibly can be. Don’t let old non supportive habits get in your way. Grow yourself now. Do the inner excavation in clearing and learning about yourself and your relationships now so that when the right man shows up, you’ll be ready. You’ll be ready for a conscious and glorious and better relationship than ever before. And you won’t sabotage the good thing you have right in front of you. Now, if you would like a one page version, make a really beautiful and clear reminder of these seven signs. You can get it for free and you can leave comments at single day soulmate dot com forward slash five That’s the number five and again that’s single to soulmate dot com forward slash five that’s the number five. All right. So that’s our gift to you. And also feel free to leave a comment or a question there at single to soulmate 4/5. John and I do our best to answer all of your comments. All right. So have a beautiful day and night and we look forward to connecting with you on the next episode of Single to Soulmate.

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