In the last episode, we talked about 3 words that have the power to change your life. But that was just the first step. Now let’s talk about 4 MORE words to change your life and why they matter too. If you haven’t heard the last episode, you’ll want to check it out first- don’t miss out!

WHAT YOU WILL LEARN:

– The next step after admitting you don’t know something

– Why these 4 words are KEY to taking action

– Where these words can take you IF you’re serious about them

READY TO CHANGE YOUR LOVE LIFE FOR THE BETTER, FOREVER?

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Speaker1: [00:00:03] Hello and welcome to single The Soulmate Podcast where we help you, the love warrior or love word to be to go from single to with your soulmate. Living the life of your dreams. Once you have looked at the three words to change your life, it’s time for four more words to change your life. If you haven’t already, listen to the podcast episode with three words to change your life. Go back and listen to that one and then listen to this one. We’re going to be talking about four more words to change your life. So when we talk about three words to change your life, we’re talking about the three words that you have to get in touch with to begin to access the desire and the drive to actually change your life. And again, in the last podcast episode, we talked about why would you even want to change your life? So when you say, I don’t know, I don’t know how to play a piano. I don’t know how to drive a car. I don’t know how to ride a bicycle. There’s something else that happens after that. If you ever want to play the piano or drive a car or ride a bicycle, if you say, I don’t know how to attract healthy love, I don’t know how to be in a in a healthy, thriving, passionate marriage. I don’t know how to be the woman of a man’s dreams in order to have a man be the man of my dreams.

Speaker1: [00:01:33] I don’t know how to find where a good guy would even be. I don’t know how to make a good decision without losing myself, without picking the wrong guy. I don’t know. But then what’s next? You see, I don’t know is a great start, because what you’re basically saying is, I don’t know how to fix this problem. Right. And it’s a problem because you want it to change. You want it to be different. You want things to be different than they are. You want your love life to be different than it is. So you start with those three powerful words. I don’t know. But then if you stay there, here’s what will happen. You’ll continue to expand on everything that goes with I don’t know. You’re complaining about how hard it is to not know. You’re complaining about how painful it is to be in this space of, I don’t know, you’re complaining about and talking about what does it feel like to not know? And here’s the thing. Most people, that’s where they get stuck. They stay there if they ever get to the place, if I don’t know, they just stay there. And I don’t know. But if you truly want to change your life, you need four more words. I want to learn. I don’t know how to play the piano. I want to learn. I don’t know how to drive a car. I want to learn.

Speaker1: [00:02:54] I don’t know how to ride a bicycle. I want to learn. So think about what you did at that point. If you wanted to play the piano and you actually know how to play the piano now you learned. What did you do to learn how to play the piano? Well, if you didn’t know how to drive a car and you just left it at that, then you just stayed not driving a car. It’s great that there’s Uber and Lyft and all that stuff, right? But if you actually are driving a car now, you took it one step further. I don’t know how to drive a car. I want to learn. And then you went about doing it. Well, let’s talk about bigger things, right? I don’t know how to be a doctor. I want to learn. So then you put forth effort, energy. I don’t know how to be a lawyer, but I want to learn for for me, I don’t know how to pass the bar exam right after you, after I got into law school, passed that and all that type of stuff. I don’t know how to pass the bar exam in the New York and New Jersey bar exams, some of the toughest bar exams in the country. I don’t know how to do that and I don’t want to take it multiple times. So I don’t know and I want to learn. So you become a student of it.

Speaker1: [00:04:02] I took classes specifically about passing the bar exam. I took a program, a course specifically designed to help you pass the bar exam. You know what I did everything the teacher said. That was my magic formula. And I passed the bar exam on the first shot for New York and New Jersey. But the key was, I don’t know. And then I want to learn, right. And think about in your life, pass the series seven or something like that, right? Past your boards or pass the bar exam or whatever it is. Right? Get your pass your your, your thesis defense, write all that type of stuff. Right? So in all of those you started with the three powerful words, I don’t know, you stepped it up with, I want to learn, and then you did something about it. So let’s talk about this area right here. I don’t know how to attract healthy love, how to be in a healthy relationship without losing myself, how to be attractive to and attracted to a high quality masculine man where I can be relaxed and in my feminine, I don’t know, but I want to learn. And that’s when you become a student of love. That’s when you start to change your life. Now, if you’re trying to to change it by doing everything you’ve already done, it’s like me saying, I don’t know how to pass the bar exam. I want to learn. And who’s going to teach me? Me? I’m going to teach me a person who’s never passed a bar exam.

Speaker1: [00:05:30] A person who’s never seen the bar exam questions. You know what I did? I went to an expert. I went to someone who has helped other people pass the bar exam multiple. Times the the course that i went to helped john f kennedy jr. Passed the bar exam after he had failed it multiple times and and they had to create they told us about it. They had to create a custom plan for him in his particular life. Well, that’s what we do when we have women come to us who are otherwise awesome, women who want to succeed in love. We create customized plans. We help women step by step in going from I don’t know, to here’s how and giving turn by turn directions around that. So becoming a student of love begins with I don’t know and I want to learn because here’s the thing. If you get stuck where most people are, I don’t know. And let me complain about it. Let me talk about how hard it is when I don’t know, you’re just going to be going around and around in circles for months, for years, maybe even for decades. You might have seen yourself already doing that. So maybe it’s time to become a student. In this case, a student of love. Probably didn’t get that in your high school, your college, your master’s degree, your graduate.

Speaker1: [00:06:51] Right. Your medical school or your law school, whatever. Probably didn’t get that. Yeah. It’s time to become a student of love. And if you are ready to to be a student of love. I got a great master class for you. Yep. I’ll talk about that in just a moment. But for now, I’ll just say, hey, thanks for joining us on Signal, Soul Mate. Thanks for tuning in to today’s episode. Hey, if you’re looking to make a major leap forward in going from single to soulmate, be sure to check out our free masterclass to learn the five step strategy our clients use to meet and marry the man of their dreams without dumbing themselves down or using manipulative lines. Just go to single soulmate dot com forward slash learn that single to soulmate dot com forward slash learn for free Masterclass on how to unlock the love you deserve and a life for your dreams. Also, if you like this podcast, be sure to hit the subscribe button and maybe even leave us a review. Let us know what you love or just even like about the podcast. Because hey, when you leave us a quick and honest review that helps other awesome women, just like you discover this podcast and helps them learn, live and love better, just like you’re learning right now. So it’s a little bit of pay it forward, subscribe and leave us a review. Thanks so much.

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