So you’ve set a goal for yourself. Great! But is that what you REALLY want? You might think so, but your actions could be saying something COMPLETELY different. Want to know what I mean? Find out in this episode.

WHAT YOU WILL LEARN:

– How to know what you ACTUALLY want

– What your actions say about you achieving your goals

– What you can do to get closer to achieving what you want

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Speaker1: [00:00:03] Hello and welcome to single The Soulmate.

Speaker2: [00:00:06] Podcast where we help you, the love warrior or love word to be to go from single to with your soulmate. Living the life of your dreams. What do you want? I mean, what do you really want? Let’s talk about that. So a lot of times when people talk about what they want, whether that be true love, whether that be, you know, a man to commit to them, family, whatever it is, it can feel daunting. It can feel like everything in your life has to be totally different. You know what? The truth is? That if you are single, struggling, frustrated with your love life and you were to attract and get into a relationship with and and foster a thriving, wonderful relationship with a high quality man who loves you, adores you, appreciates you, cherishes you. And then, you know, if you want to have a family, have a family, then of course, your life will be totally different. The the different and better. Right. The thing is that you can’t have all that stuff today. And so how can you bridge what you want with what’s happening today? Tomorrow. Right, this weekend. And and when we really look at it every day, we’re making choices. Every day we’re making choices with what to do with our time, with our energy, with our money, with our attention. Every day we make choices. And you know what? Those choices reveal what we really want. Because if you really want. To have true love.

Speaker2: [00:01:53] But you’re living today the same way you lived yesterday and the same way you did last week. And you’re making minor, minuscule changes. Well, what you really want is to have your life be pretty much the same. And that’s a very different true desire than when you say you want to have true love, marriage, family, have your life be transformed because the truth is underneath what you want. What you really want is to have your life be pretty much the same as it is right now. And in our community, we some we sometimes talk about, look, remember, you’re not building Mr. Potato Head. This is a man who exists out there. He’s a grown man. And he’s not just an ornament on your life. So you’ve got to be up for transformation. And many people say that they want that they want their life to be different, to be better. But in reality, their choices on a day to day basis, hour to hour, day to day, really shows what they really want. And when women come to us and say, I wish I had come to five years earlier, ten years earlier, 20 years earlier, what were those ten years filled with? They were filled with choices on a day to day basis that were revealing what they really, truly wanted. So this is an opportunity for you to ask yourself, look at your life, the choices that you’re making on a day to day basis of where to devote your attention, what to focus on, where to spend your money, your your your time, your just, your energy, your consciousness.

Speaker2: [00:03:36] That’s really showing you what you want. And if that life that you have isn’t really what it is that you want, it is time to make some new choices. Not someday, not down the line, not when everything, you know, work slows down or, you know, the economy is this or my credit score is out or this project at work is this. It’s really about making a new choice today to take one step in a new direction and get out of your own way. Because most people would love to get some help with moving. They’re having their life be different. But when help is offered, they choose. Now I want to pretty much have life the same. And so look at your choices. Look at the decisions that you’re making because the decisions that you’re making today are are going to land you in the life that you have in a year, five years, ten years. How do you know that? Because the decisions that you made in the year five years ago, ten years ago, have landed you with the life that you have today. And if that’s not the life that you want, maybe it’s time to make some new choices. Thanks for joining us today on Single Soulmate. Be sure to subscribe, write a review, all that good stuff and we’ll talk to you soon.

Speaker1: [00:04:58] Thanks for tuning in to today’s episode. If you’re a single professional woman who wants your success in your love life to match your success in your career or business, and you’re looking to get crystal clear right now about why true love just hasn’t been knocking on your door and and what you can do about it. You’re going to want to book a Love Breakthrough Clarity call right now with one of our love breakthrough specialists. She’ll get on the phone or zoom call with you one on one to assess exactly what’s been holding you back and love what it is you really want and how to get there as quickly as possible. By the end of this compassionate and professional assessment, you’ll finally have clarity plus an immediately actionable path forward. So just go to single to soulmate dot com forward slash call to book a call that’s single to soulmate dot com for call for a free love breakthrough call. That’s for you. If you’re a single professional woman who is as serious about your love life right now as you’ve been about getting your degree or your career or business success. And if you’re ready to finally have some clarity and have a breakthrough in your love life right now, this is perfect for you. Again, that’s single to soulmate dot com forward slash call to book your life changing one on one assessment call right away.

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