Could you be self-sabotaging your love life without knowing it? You just might be. This is WAY more common than you think, it happens to a lot of women and they don’t even notice. Find out why in this episode- and how to change that ASAP.

WHAT YOU WILL LEARN:

– How you could be unknowingly KILLING your chances at love

– The role your words and thoughts play in this

– How to AVOID this and set yourself up for love 

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Speaker1: [00:00:00] Welcome back to Single Day Summit, where single professional women who are ready to buck the trend in the culture and society to treat your love life as an afterthought, a side dish of life. These women, maybe you come to prioritize true love, marriage and family and learn how to attract a high quality, masculine man of your dreams and live your happily ever after for real. Today, we’re going to be talking about are you killing your chances with that high quality man before you even meet or talk? Let’s let’s talk about this. So have you ever walked into a room where you can, like, feel the energy? There’s other people there. They’ve been talking. When you walk into the room, you can feel the energy there. You can feel of it’s uplifting. You can feel if it’s negative, you can feel if there’s tension. Right. What is that? There’s a vibration. There’s some looks. There are some words. Those that are said and not said, all of that. Well, it’s a feeling. Right. And you’ve probably had that experience before. Well, here’s the thing. It’s not just an instant feeling like they’ve been talking and then you walk into the room. It’s also when people talk about things behind other people’s back and then they come to meet you, you can feel that, you know, this is long before a person shows up.

Speaker1: [00:01:16] So what does this have to do with men? Well, let’s talk about the kind of man that you want. Let’s say you want a sensitive yet masculine man. Self confident, but not cocky man. Well, that sensitive and confident man. He can feel the room, too. You know what room I’m talking about? The room of your life, who you are, how you show up in your life when there’s not men around. Do you talk shit about men to your girlfriends? Do you call men weak or stupid or worse? Right? Do you talk about men after you have a connection or a date or a guy tries to talk to you? Well, you know what? Here’s the thing. I’m going to I’m going to just share with you. He can feel it. And you know what? Not just the man you have already talked about, but the next man can feel it, too. And it’ll kill your chances with that man before you even open your mouth. So what you want to do is you want to speak about men in general, the way you want women in general to be spoken about with grace and respect, not with gossip and speaking ill of men.

Speaker1: [00:02:23] Like when you do that, it’s like having one foot on the gas and one foot on the brake. Listen, you want a man, right? Not just any man. You want that confident, high quality, masculine man who’s also sensitive. But if you speak badly about them with disdain, disrespect or discomfort. Look, I know that that’s with culture. That’s what’s happening in the culture. I know that that’s what’s happening in society. But if you really do want to have true love, marriage and family with a high quality, confidence sensitive man, you’ve got to be bold enough to buck that trend. You’ve got to be bold enough to speak about men with grace and respect. And does that mean that every man is like some great man? No. But just because someone else is being a jerk doesn’t mean that you have to go down to the gutter along with them. Keep your standards high for yourself, show up the way you want and show up the way you want to be. Talked about, spoken to and spoken about. It will change the energy in your room. It will change the energy with men. It’ll change your life. Speaking of changing your life, if you want to change your life and have a breakthrough, you’re going to want to get on the phone with Lara and and talk about what’s going on in your life, what’s not working and what you want instead, what do you really want? And then you’ll have an opportunity to have a breakthrough right there on the call.

Speaker1: [00:03:55] That’s why we call this one on one totally free call, a love breakthrough call. So go to signal to soulmate dot com forward slash call to sign up for a free love breakthrough call. Now, listen, this call is not for everyone. This is only for you. If you’re a single professional woman and you are serious about having a breakthrough in your life and you want true love, you want marriage, and you want a family of some type, you know, with fur babies, with your own babies, whatever it is. But if you want true love, marriage and family and you’re tired of spinning your wheels and having guys that ghost you and and just attracting and being attracted to and interacting with low quality, low commitment men. Now’s the time to have a breakthrough. Go to single soulmate dot com forward slash call to sign up for a free love breakthrough call. We’ll see you on the next episode of Single Soulmate. Bye for now.

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