Dating can be confusing! You probably have been in situations where you are unsure of where things are going. What have you done when it’s happened? Has it led you to find your soulmate?

WHAT YOU WILL LEARN:
– How to decide when to keep dating
– How to determine if you are connecting with someone

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Speaker1: [00:00:03] Hello and welcome to the single The Soulmate Podcast.

Speaker2: [00:00:06] Where we help you, the love warrior or love warrior to be to become your own soulmate first as the path to the life of your dreams with your soulmate by your side. So today’s question comes from Nikki and she’s in Northern California. She’s got a great question. I think you’re going to really love this. So, Lara, is it better to date a lot or date only when you really connect with someone? I really do not like dating, finding childcare. Finding something cute to wear. And going to meet someone I may or may not like. But the old wisdom says to accept most invitations and to take a chance. What do you say? So, Nikki, first of all, thank you for this question. I’m sure that a lot of people out there have the same one, so I’m looking forward to answering that. So first of all, you know, that wisdom, that old wisdom of why didn’t your nets essentially that simply outdated wisdom? Johnny and I do not teach from that place. What we say is you want to actually tighten your net. You want your net so tight that only the right man would fall through it. And so what do I mean by that? Well, just know, first of all, that Johnny and I did not date a lot to find each other. We did not date 100 people before we found each other. We dated very little, in fact. And most of our love lounge clients, the clients that have worked with us and then found their sweeties, they didn’t have to date dozens and dozens of guys to find their man because they started by doing these three tips. So I’m just going to share this with you.

Speaker2: [00:01:42] So first, what you want to do is you want to get clear about who your soulmate is and who he is not. So how do you do that? Well, just start a list, start a soulmate list, start getting clear, start writing out the qualities and the values of the soulmate that you would love to have. Then number two, what you want to do is you want to start to be the soulmate that you want to find, and you want to ask yourself, as you’re looking at the list, that you’re soulmate list, do I embody these qualities that I want my man to have? Start to ask yourself these questions. And then three. Number three, after doing these previous steps, maybe more than once, what you want to do is in life, as in dating in every area of your life, you want to start to trust yourself more. Start to feel into your intuition whenever somebody offers you something or you’re getting offered a date or you have a choice to make. Start to listen to that inner voice inside that little still small voice within that tells you the right path for you. Listen to it and follow it. So if you’re feeling a hell yes, go for it. If it’s a hell no, let it go. And then just trust that. So, Nikki, if you just follow these three steps to begin your process of attracting your soulmate, you will find that things really start to shift. I love your questions. Both John and I are really wanting to help you get on the path to attracting the right man for you. So sending you love and blessings. And I’ll see you next week.

Speaker1: [00:03:22] Hey, I hope you enjoyed today’s episode. And if you did enjoy it, please leave us a review on whatever your favorite podcast platform is. Reviews. Let other women know that we exist, and it’s a little bit of like a paying it forward thing. So if you’re enjoying it, getting a lot out of it, learning that, we’d love to hear from you and a review. And we have tons of five star reviews. We’d love to have your five star review or whatever your honest review is. Thanks so much for listening to Single Soulmate.

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