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Curiosity is a strong desire to know or learn something. It’s become a rare thing nowadays with so much easy access to information. Let’s talk about what curiosity actually means, why it’s so rare these days, and how true curiosity can help you get past hurdles that would stop most people.

WHAT YOU WILL LEARN:

– Why information overload can KILL your curiosity

– What good curiosity looks like

– How the right curiosity will help you

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Speaker1: [00:00:03] Hello and welcome to Single The Soulmate Podcast, where we help you the love warrior or love word to be to go from single to with your soulmate Living the life of your dreams. Come back to today’s episode. If you haven’t watched or listen to the first one in this series, I recommend you go back, listen to the first one, because every one of these in this series build on each other. Now, this is an exclusive inside event for our clients. Love words, as we call them, and we’re giving you access to it because you think would be really helpful. Enjoy. Curiosity. So curiosity is a strong desire to know or learn something. Curiosity. Now, here’s the thing about curiosity. It is actually become more rare as information has become more ubiquitous, more common, more everywhere, getting information at this point, generally speaking. Generally speaking, does virtually nothing for you. It is the application of the right information for you at the right time that has any real value to the day that moves you forward in a real meaningful way today. So how do you know that? Well, on your computer that we’re connecting with right now, or the phone that’s in your pocket or in your purse or on your table, there is more information about how to be or do or have anything. Find love, make millions, lose weight, gain weight, make blueberry muffins, run a marathon, win it poker, Whatever it is, there is more information than you could possibly consume in a lifetime.

Speaker1: [00:01:50] Right. All right. So why is it do people go years without these things that they want happening? Well, curiosity diminishes and almost dies off because of information overload. Now, one of the things you learn and experience in our inner circle mastermind, for example, is not more information. Not necessarily more information, but tools to help you synthesize and apply the information that you already have with less effort and strain and then turn by turn directions so that you’re applying it for you in your life right now. So, yes, there is more information, more learning, but it’s learning about what to cut out, what to not pay attention to, what to pay attention to for your life. Not a generic stadium full of people, but your life and how to be more magical in your life, not more stressed. All right. Who feels like they need just they just don’t have enough information in their life? Information overload. It’s just not a thing for them. They just don’t have enough information in their life. Like, who’s going to say, no, I don’t have. Right. Information alone is just not going to cut it. If you find yourself feeling stressed and overwhelmed, that’s a very common experience. And I’m not saying that these days that like this can be altogether eliminated. But in the storms especially, you absolutely must be curious about how to cut out that which doesn’t serve you and distinguish that from the stuff that you really do need to pay attention to.

Speaker1: [00:03:27] Right. So how does Curiosity wither away and a lot of times almost die off altogether? It starts with being combative where you’d be better served to be curious. Being curious rather than combative, will help your career or business thrive. It will help your health and fitness thrive. It will help your relationship thrive. I mean. It’s become like normal to be snarky and combative. You see it in person. You see it online especially, Right? People are snarky and combative just for sport or because he or she didn’t say something the exact right way, the exact way you think they should. This is a surefire way to make your whole life a battle and your whole life fucking exhausting. So being curious rather than combative. How to move your life forward helps you de-stress. And also being curious rather than critical will actually open your eyes to new possibilities in any or every area of your life, your health, your wealth, your love life. Being critical has become so normalized these days that a lot of times you hear people say that you don’t care unless you’re also being critical. Right. And not just being critical, but being critical about the things that they say that you should be critical about and married or partnered ladies. You take that stuff home and being critical and combative with your husband, boyfriend, VSP, significant other. This is a surefire way to strangle the life out of your marriage. It’ll die a slow death and you won’t know what hit you.

Speaker1: [00:05:14] So you wake up one day and somebody wants out. Laura and I have found that people that we meet, whether it be in Denmark or California or here in the Valley of the Sun in Arizona or in Atlanta, Georgia, where we’re going to be next week. Right. For our next week, next month for our to love warrior nation live events that people that are genuinely curious about you and about life have better lives don’t later become like non-committal, unmoved, unable to be lit up by new possibilities. This is the snarky ism taking over. This is the critical nature taking over. This is the information overload taking over. Don’t let that happen to you. You’re going to die with that. You’ll die a slow death inside as your life shrinks and the walls close in on you. Get curious. Get curious about things that really matter and detach from things that don’t. How do you know what matters and what doesn’t? Look at your map. Look at the upper right hand corner. That’s the stuff that matters. That is the stuff that matters. So if you were doing like a thing where you write, like people write the little triangle thing. Curious over. Combative. Curious over critical. Curiosity will have you looking at that upper right hand corner of your map and asking yourself, How do I get there? What do I need to be? Do have experience so I can have that sooner? Wherever. You see any skill, achievement, experience, new level, anything that you ever want to be other than average at? You have to be curious about.

Speaker1: [00:07:07] You have to be curious about. So write this down. I am a curious person. I am a curious person. I’m curious about myself and I’m curious about life. When people are curious about something that they’re excited about. The normal reaction in society these days is to make fun of somebody and you start to internalize that in your own mind. And so you diminish your brightness, you diminish your excitement, you diminish your joy, your fun. Because everybody is so busy, so busy being snarky and critical that nobody’s fucking lit up about anything. Right. So this isn’t about you allowing yourself to get curious, get excited, be lit up. The curiosity builds on the optimism and is a necessary ingredient to have a magical life. So you can expand on that later to include whatever it is that you want in your life. But you’ve got to be curious about that subject and then let the curiosity drive you. Anything that you want to be more than average at. You have to be super curious about because you want to learn about that. You want to grow in that area. You want to be excited in that area. Because average is snarky, critical and closed off. And that’s not going to create a magical life. All right. I hope you got a lot out of this episode and hope you enjoyed getting a sneak peek inside one of our exclusive online events for our clients.

Speaker1: [00:08:59] Now, remember, this is a multiple series of episodes here that are all part of it. So be on the lookout for the next episode so you can complete this. Right. Bye for now. Hey, thanks for tuning into today’s episode. If you’re a single professional woman who wants your success in your love life to match your success in your career, and you’re looking to get crystal clear right now about why Truelove hasn’t been knocking on your door and how to have that happen sooner rather than later. Like, not literally, though. That would be weird, but I hope you know what I’m saying. Anyway, you’re going to want to book a call, a love breakthrough clarity call right now with my dear wife, Dr. Laura. Yes. Laura herself will get on the phone or Skype with you one on one to assess exactly what’s been holding you back and love what it is you really want and how to get there as quickly as possible. Just go to single day soulmate dot com forward slash call to book a call that single to soulmate dot com forward slash call for free love breakthrough clarity call that is for you if and only if you’re a single professional woman who is as serious about her love life right now as you’ve been about getting your degree or your career success. So again that’s single soulmate dot com forward slash call to book your life changing love. Breakthrough clarity call right away.

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