026: What it’s like to become your own soulmate in the dating world

The dating world could get really overwhelming and intimidating for someone who’s not prepared to actually make a decision or doesn’t know if someone is right for them or not.

In this episode, you’ll learn to become your own real soulmate as Johnny talks about where you should be devoting yourself first before entering the dating world. He also talks about what not to do so that dating won’t become an obstacle in finding your love.

In this episode we talk about:

– The importance of having a breakthrough in your life

– Becoming your own soulmate first as the right path to soulmate love

– Being kind to yourself

– How you’re not only leading yourself, but you’re also leading a team

– Looking at how aware are you on where you put your time, money and energy in your past relationships

Becoming your own soulmate comes first before dating. If you want to be in a committed, monogamous, long-term relationship with a healthy quality man, one of the things you can do is reflect on how you got into your past relationships.

And once you have reflected on it, shift and devote more of your resources to the life that you really want. Know and love yourself first, then you’ll be more prepared to face and meet the man of your dreams.

If you want to take your learning, growth, and breakthroughs to a whole new level, join Johnny and Lara at the Love Breakthrough Weekend experience. This is a once a year, live, and in-person event where you can personally work with Johnny and Lara to achieve more breakthroughs. Go to www.singletosoulmate.com/lbw to learn more and get in the VIP notification list so you’ll find out first when the very limited seats are available.

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025: Boundary Issues

Setting boundaries is such a big issue especially when it comes to your family, lover or people who are super close to you. Boundaries are needed in order to have a healthy relationship with anybody. When setting boundaries, make sure it is clear and reasonable.

In this episode, Johnny talks about certain issues regarding boundaries and shares some important lessons related to it. He also shared a story regarding a client and her personal boundary issues and what you can take away from her story.

In this episode we talk about:

– Lessons on boundary

– How everything affects your love life and your love life affects everything

– How to draw boundaries with the people (e.g. parents, siblings, lover) you’re very close with

– Not putting yourself in difficult situations

– Not calling a delusion a boundary

– How to stop expecting others to be someone they are not

Your boundaries should match reality. We have a lot of ideas about what boundary we should apply on other people like our co-workers, friends, neighbors, and people who aren’t really close to us. But when it comes to your family, lover or people who are really close to your heart, it could get a little bit hard.

If you want to take your learning, growth, and breakthroughs to a whole new level, join Johnny and Lara at the Love Breakthrough Weekend experience. This is a once a year, live, and in-person event where you can personally work with Johnny and Lara to achieve more breakthroughs. Go to www.singletosoulmate.com/lbw to learn more and get in the VIP notification list so you’ll find out first when the very limited seats are available.

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024: Do men REALLY expect a perfect woman? (A Guys POV)

What does it take for you to call a man perfect? Should he be handsome? Wealthy? Attentive? Kind? A family man? Does he even exist or have you just fallen into “The Perfect Man Trap”? Should you be that perfect girl too in order to be the right match for your ideal perfect guy?

In this episode, Johnny shares from a guy’s pov the 3 perfection myths that keeps you away from your soulmate, and how it’s slowly leading you into the perfect man trap.

In this episode we talk about:

– The “perfect man trap” – a story about people who didn’t click and a story about perfectionism

– Perfection myths you should stop believing if you want to attract your soulmate

– You don’t have to be what he wants you to be, you have to be who YOU want
to be

– A genuine warm smile is the best thing you can wear

– If you love you, then he will love you

– Don’t pressure yourself with unrealistic expectations


“Perfectionism is not the same thing as striving to be our best. Perfectionism is not
about healthy achievement and growth; it’s a shield. Perfectionism is a 20-ton shield that we lug around thinking it will protect us when, in fact, it’s the thing that’s really preventing us from being seen and taking flight.” — Brene Brown

Nobody is perfect, but it doesn’t mean you have to stop striving to be the best you. He may not be perfect, but he is the perfect one for you! You just have to allow yourself to know that you’ll also be the perfect woman for him by being your true and raw self.

If you want to take your learning, growth, and breakthroughs to a whole new level, join Johnny and Lara at the Love Breakthrough Weekend experience. This is a once a year, live, and in-person event where you can personally work with Johnny and Lara to achieve more breakthroughs. Go to www.singletosoulmate.com/lbw to learn more and get in the VIP notification list so you’ll find out first when the very limited seats are available.

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023: What it means to have it all and how you can achieve it

They say you can’t have it all. But what does it really mean to have it all? This concept of having it all means different things to different people. It could mean having an exciting career, a loving husband, being rich and famous, and whatnot.

In this episode, Johnny talks about what it really means to have it all and how you can achieve it. When we talk about having it all, on a surface level, people equate it to collecting physical objects or acquiring stuff. But when you look at it deeply, having it all means being in a healthy relationship with a high-quality committed man who loves and adores you and is committed only to you.

In this episode we talk about:

– What “having it all” really means

– Love Warriors take their dreams seriously and so does the people around them

– Surrounding yourself with people who are living the life you want

– How we are given life in order to prosper it

– Being wise in our choices and going for our dreams

Remember, having it all means you can have love, health, financial ease, abundance, and a healthy relationship with a high-quality man who loves, adores, cherishes and respects you with all of his entire being.

Life isn’t perfect and that’s okay! You can still be happy doing the things you love with your soulmate by your side. If you think you are asking for too much, you aren’t. We are all created to prosper and are meant to achieve greater things. Get around people who have it all so that you can see that it is totally possible for you too!

If you want to take your learning, growth, and breakthroughs to a whole new level, join Johnny and Lara at the Love Breakthrough Weekend experience. This is a once a year, live, and in-person event where you can personally work with Johnny and Lara to achieve more breakthroughs. Go to www.singletosoulmate.com/lbw to learn more and get in the VIP notification list so you’ll find out first when the very limited seats are available.

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022: Letting go of the past

Social media is not really helping when it comes to moving on from a breakup. Sure, you did unfriend your ex or maybe even blocked him. But what about his friends? What if they post something where your ex is tagged or mentioned? What if this reminder of him hurts you too much? Should you unfriend them too?

In this episode, Lara answers one of the questions by our dear listeners. “Would unfriending my ex’s friends on social media (e.g. Facebook) be the right path into letting go of the past?”

Lara also shares 5 things you can do to totally let go of your past and move on to the next chapter of your life.

In this episode we talk about:

– Releasing your anxiety by unfriending your ex’s buddies on social media

– Taking a break and going on a man diet

– Learning to forgive yourself for the decisions you’ve made in terms of dating

– Raising your “Quality Attraction Factor” to magnetize the man of your dreams

– Extraordinary self-care by committing to yourself

– Knowing yourself first

Unfriending your ex’s friends on social media will definitely speed up the healing process. This does not mean you hate them, but you need to do it if you really want to move on. It’s not easy but you must learn to let go of the past and live in the present moment with your future in mind.

Remove all traces of your ex, and one of them is unfollowing him and his friends on social media. Lingering in your past relationships will keep you from achieving that happy future you’ve been dreaming of.

If you want to take your learning, growth, and breakthroughs to a whole new level, join Johnny and Lara at the Love Breakthrough Weekend experience. This is a once a year, live, and in-person event where you can personally work with Johnny and Lara to achieve more breakthroughs. Go to www.singletosoulmate.com/lbw to learn more and get in the VIP notification list so you’ll find out first when the very limited seats are available.

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