How do you escape from other men’s seduction and commit to soulmate love? Avoid getting seduced as Lara shares her answer and insights on the question about seduction, leaking your energy, femininity, and commitment to soulmate love.

WHAT YOU WILL LEARN:

– What commitment really looks like

– The ‘Marathon Analogy’ in relation to soulmate love commitment

– Attracting your soulmate is not a sprint

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Speaker1: [00:00:02] Hello and welcome to the Single Soulmate Podcast.

Speaker2: [00:00:05] Where we help you, the love warrior or love warrior to be to become your own soulmate first as the path to the life of your dreams with your soulmate by your side. All right. So this week’s question comes from A in Berkeley, California. This is what she writes. I was wondering about leaky energy. That is some specific circumstances where I am not sure am I leaking energy from attracting my soul mate or am I just keeping my femininity alive? As an example, I go out dancing once a week or so, and in doing so, I dance with quite a few men. Once in a while, I attract a man with whom I feel some great sexual chemistry. Sometimes he seduces me into kissing, and on rare occasions, about once every 3 to 4 months or so, a man seduces me into sex. It is always with my full consent, of course, although I have pretty much drifted out of my rational mind if one of these men gets me to have sex with them. But I find myself wondering if this is okay as far as attracting my soulmate goes. On the one hand, I feel like having some physical intimacy with a man once in a while really helps me keep my femininity alive.

Speaker2: [00:01:11] I haven’t had a boyfriend for almost three years and I was used to having sex at least once a day. So having no sex for so long is not too easy for me. On the other hand, I find myself getting used to this pattern of a seemingly unending stream of different men with whom I indulge in some small and or limited level of sensual exchange. And I wonder, is this taking me further and further away from my soulmate, or is this keeping my vibration high? That’s what it feels like and attracting my soul mate. I haven’t continued any kind of intimate relationship with any of these men because I do feel committed to waiting for my soul mate. It’s such a great question. Thank you so much for writing this letter. Here’s the deal You may feel committed, but this is not what committed looks like. And the truth is, you know the answer because you answer it yourself in this letter and I quote, Although I pretty much have drifted out of my rational mind, if one of these men gets me to have sex with them, you answer the question yourself. Okay. Right now, this is about you being courageous, standing in your power and taking a stand for what you say you want, and not just really being glib about it, really committing to soul mate love.

Speaker2: [00:02:28] You know, I just think about marathons like anybody can buy a ticket to register for a marathon, but it takes a strong woman, strong in her mind, in her heart and her soul to show up, suit up and show up for that marathon and run it all the way through. And that’s what this is about, is running the marathon, attracting your soul mate. It’s not a sprint. Nobody promised you it’d be a sprint. It’s a marathon. And you know what? You prepare yourself by keeping your energy, making your energy strong. We’ve talked about this, about how you want to keep your energy within you. Whenever you’re sleeping with somebody, you’re leaking your energy out. That is what leaking energy is, is leaking your energy out to men who, you know, who are not your soulmate. That is not a level of commitment that attracts soul mate love. So I hope this has been helpful to you. I send you all my love and blessings. Wish you all the best. Thank you.

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