This can be a tricky one! What has your experience been in regards to this? Do you feel like it has taken you to find the relationship you wanted? Learn more about it in this episode.

WHAT YOU WILL LEARN:

– What you should actually consider when to have sex

– Other factors that you should be focusing on

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Speaker1: [00:00:02] Hello and welcome to the single The Soulmate Podcast.

Speaker2: [00:00:05] Where we help you, the love warrior or love warrior to be to become your own soulmate first as the path to the life of your dreams with your soulmate by your side. So this week’s question is this Dr. Laura, once and for all, when is the right time to have sex with someone that you are a attracted to and be really like? I get really nervous about it and I hate having to feel that way. What do you think? This is a great question. Thanks for asking. First of all, what you want to do is you want to start to set your boundaries ahead of time. When you’re out on a date, you want to respond, not react. So now a little younger and you want to have more experiences. Go ahead and do that, but just be safe. But if you’re in your mid thirties or beyond, like a lot of the women that we work with in our courses and programs and you’ve been around the block, you’ve sowed your wild oats, and you’re really ready for that committed, lifelong, monogamous relationships. You’re going to want to start to do things differently. So here’s what I recommend. First, give yourself the gift of 20 minutes of alone time with you, a pen and a journal, and just write out a boundary list, write out your boundaries.

Speaker2: [00:01:22] And this boundary list is for your eyes only. This is not something you had to your date when you go out with them. Okay. This is for you. So you know what your agreements are and you’re very clear about them. So you write out your boundaries list and some of the boundaries might be like how many glasses of alcoholic beverage? What’s the limit to how many glasses of alcohol per day? Each day? Maybe it’s one I recommend none. But you decide what’s best for you or how long before you sleep with him. What’s your limit? For some, it’s six weeks, four summits, 20 dates. For others, that’s commitment. And that’s what I recommend is waiting to commitment before you sleep with him. But you decided what’s best for you two. You’re going to want to know your patterns about how you do relationships, how you show up in relationships, and where you give your power away in them. That way you will never settle again in love. And hey, comment about what you think about this. Share your questions. We’d love to hear from you. So until next week, I’ll see you later. Bye bye.

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