New season, new lessons! In this new episode, Johnny gives an exciting update about his and Lara’s life and what you can expect from the podcast this season. He also kicks us off with the first lesson of the season: “Why now is an EXCELLENT time to find love”. If you’ve felt held back by everything going on in your life and the world, then make sure to tune in to this brand new episode!

WHAT YOU WILL LEARN:

– 3 reasons why NOW is an excellent time to find love

– How our clients have found love SAFELY in the past 2 years

– What you can do NOW to start your journey of finding true love

READY TO CHANGE YOUR LOVE LIFE FOR THE BETTER, FOREVER?

If you’re ready for the first step towards major transformation & true love at last, head over to https://singletosoulmate.com/call to book a FREE 1-on-1 call with Lara herself. She’ll assess exactly what’s been holding you back in love, how to get what you REALLY want, and if or how we can help you get it as quickly as possible.

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Speaker1: [00:00:03] Hello and welcome to single The Soulmate.

Speaker2: [00:00:06] Podcast where we help you, the love warrior or love word to be to go from single to with your soulmate. Living the life of your dreams.

Speaker1: [00:00:18] Hi, ladies. This is Laura Fernandez, and I’m coming at you here live to ask you a question. Have you been single for for so long? But you really, really, really, really, deeply, profoundly want that lasting, true love, marriage and family. And you’ve tried everything like you’ve tried listening to the podcasts, you’ve tried, you know, reading the books. Maybe you’ve even taken like an online course or two. You’ve watched all the YouTube videos that you can watch, but nothing is really working. Maybe you’ve even gone on dating sites, on dating apps, and maybe you have, you know, maybe you’re on two or three or four or five or six or seven different dating apps and nothing is working. You’re just not finding that quality guy. You’ve been putting yourself out there and you just keep attracting the same kind of guy in a different body. So some guys are better, some guys are worse, but essentially they’re all dead in relationships and they don’t end up the way you want, which is with that ring on your finger and you know, and a future together and that kind of co decision maker in life that just, you know, lifts you up and cherishes you and treat you like a queen. And he’s a king. And so at this point, are you kind of doubting yourself? Maybe you just are staring at those kind of dating apps, you know, just swiping right, swiping left or whatever, and kind of judging yourself because you’ve been trying for years, but nothing’s working.

Speaker1: [00:01:58] And maybe I mean, sure, you can attract guys, you can get dates, you can even get in relationships, but the relationships keep ending the same way, heartbroken or you’re breaking somebody else’s heart or both. And it’s just been years now and it’s really hard, right? It’s actually really hard. And you’re starting to maybe even kind of question yourself, judge yourself, feel bad about yourself. But you know what? Here’s the truth. The truth is you judging yourself and not being kind yourself and beating up on yourself because of being single. You not feeling good about yourself every time you walk into another party with no plus one, every time you walk into another wedding with no plus one and it’s the holiday season again and there’s no guy by your side. If you keep judging yourself, that puts you into, like, a negative dating spiral. It’s just kind of spiraling down. And what that does is over time, is it? It’s you. You start to attract the same kind of guy, one dating disaster after the next one, relationship after the next. Maybe that just ends. Going nowhere, just doesn’t don’t doesn’t go anywhere. And here’s the number one secret you need to know, though.

Speaker1: [00:03:22] The number one secret to you, finding that epic love that you really want is this It’s take 100% responsibility for your love life. Take 100% responsibility for all of the breakups, all of the things that have happened that have gotten you here watching this video and on whatever day right now, it’s when I’m recording this, it’s May the 12th of 2022. So you may watch this in a day or two or a week or two, but whatever it is, you’re here in 2022, you’re still single. Did you ever think that you’re still going to be single at this age? Right. No, I’m sure you didn’t. So the first step, the major step, first and foremost, before you do anything else, is taking 100%, 100% responsibility and ownership over your love life. And you know what that does? What that does is it stops you from being the victim, because victims cannot attract love. Victim minded people cannot attract lasting love. Sure, you can maybe experience it, but that victim mindset always has you. Blaming, blaming, blaming, blaming, blaming others for your circumstances. So all of our successful clients, all of the success stories that you see here in this Facebook group, all of them come from, first and foremost, the women going, I take 100% responsibility for my love life and I’m not going to let anybody else I’m not going to blame anybody else.

Speaker1: [00:05:06] Certainly those men that you attracted, that you’ve been in relationship with, the ex-husbands, the ex-boyfriends, they have their responsibility. But until you can take 100%. Responsibility, not blame. I want to make sure we’re clear here. Notice how I said that judging and blaming of yourself actually leads you downward and doesn’t actually help you any. It actually just keeps you feeling bad and keeping it keeps you keep putting out the energy of of blame and shame. And that’s just not going to work. But when you can take take your power back, first and foremost, how you start to take your power back in love is taking that 100% responsibility. Because what that does is it gives you the steering wheel back into your life. And when you have that steering wheel, then you can start to co-create something new. You can drive your car, so to speak, somewhere else. Right. And so by taking responsibility, that’s what I’m going to invite you to do, is take ownership over your love life. Not blame, not shame, not regret. You can’t fix the past. You can only take this moment forward. And once you can really start to do that, things, opportunities that never were there, that you never saw can start to pop up in front of you.

Speaker1: [00:06:26] And in fact, I’ve got an opportunity for you right here. If you’re really, really, really at the point where you’re willing to take 100% ownership over your love life and then do something about it, I’m going to invite you to watch our brand new master class. Johnny and I created we just rewrote it and just we just filmed it not that long ago. And it’s a 45 minute masterclass on the five biggest shifts that our clients are making to attract love. So, yeah, so all of these clients that you’ve been seeing here in this group that are success stories, they had to make these five shifts. First, they took responsibility and then they made these five shifts. And so if that’s something that’s interesting to you, not just interesting, but like really interesting and you’re really ready to like make 2022 your year for love so that by New Year’s Eve of this year, you’re actually holding hands and kissing at midnight that special someone. If that’s you, I’m going to invite you to our free masterclass. This is something that John and I have spent the past 17 years of our lives building and creating for women like you. So the kind of women that we work with are women who have invested time, energy and money into their education and their careers, and they have placed those at a high level and now they’re really ready.

Speaker1: [00:07:54] So they have a lot of things going on in there. They’re they’re highly educated and they’re their careers are going well, maybe certainly they could always improve, but they’re they’re going really well. And so they’ve checked off all the boxes in every every every area of their love life. But they’re really ready to add every area, not every area of their love life, but every other area of their life. And they’re ready to add a husband and not just any husband, that special someone that they know that they can create a family with, whether that’s babies, whether that’s blending families, whether that’s for babies, doesn’t matter whether it’s grown children, it doesn’t matter. But creating a family together and living out the rest of their lives, if you if that is what you want and you’re really, really, really serious about it, it’s a high priority for you. It’s going to invite you to our free masterclass, the five shifts that our clients have taken to attract that that love of their life, that epic love. So good to talk to you here today. And yeah, looking forward to connecting with you soon and I will talk to you later. Thanks for joining me. Bye bye.

Speaker2: [00:09:06] Thanks for tuning in to today’s episode. Hey, if you’re looking to make a major leap forward in going from single to soulmate, be sure to check out our free masterclass to learn the five step strategy our clients use to meet and marry the man of their dreams without dumbing themselves down or using manipulative lines. Just go to single to soulmate dot com forward slash learn that single or soulmate dot com forward slash learn for free. Masterclass on how to unlock the love you deserve and life for your dreams. Also, if you like this podcast, be sure to hit the subscribe button and maybe even leave us a review. Let us know what you love or just even like about the podcast. Because hey, when you leave us a quick and honest review that helps other awesome women, just like you discover this podcast and helps them learn, live and love better, just like you’re learning right now. So it’s a little bit of pay it forward, subscribe and leave us a review. Thanks so much.

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