It has become very come to take quick love tips for “instant solutions” that only result in disaster. There is so much information out there and a lot of if could harm your path to finding true love. So how can you spot the tips to avoid? Let’s talk about that in this episode.

WHAT YOU WILL LEARN:

– Why not all dating advice is the same

– What dating tips to avoid

– What you should do instead

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Speaker1: [00:00:03] Hello and welcome to single The Soulmate.

Speaker2: [00:00:06] Podcast where we help you, the love warrior or love word to be to go from single to with your soulmate. Living the life of your dreams.

Speaker1: [00:00:23] Hi there. This is Laura Fernandez, and I am a holistic love and life coach. Me and my husband Johnny have been coaching single women who want to manifest the life of their dreams with their soulmate by their side. We’ve been coaching them to become their own soulmate first for over 13 years now, so I just wanted to drop by here and just say hello, introduce myself, and also just give you a quick tip about not taking quick tips, and I’ll explain what I mean by that. So a lot of women that we’ve worked with over the past and past few years or women that we have rather met over the years online and in person, not all women, but some, I’m going to say some women, maybe not a lot, but a good amount of women seem to want just a really quick fix to their love and relationship challenges. So they want one line to say or one place you want to tip on what’s one place to meet a good man. And there’s just no good men left. What do I find? These good men? Excuse me? I’m cooking dinner while I’m talking to you. So I fridge. It’s very fancy in here, so. Yeah. So they kind of want just like a quick tip on how to find a good man. Like, that’s a big question.

Speaker1: [00:01:35] We get a lot, like, what do I find these good men? There’s no good men left. And so what we say to that is that’s more of a kind of like a and I don’t mean this in a rude way, but a superficial approach. If you’re looking for quick tips, dating tips and just like where to go to find good men, like there’s some sort of place where good men are hiding that you need to know about, and then that would solve all your relationship problems. That’s just not actually going to work. Nine times out of ten, what we have found over the years is that if you are between the ages of 30 and above and you’ve been looking to find your soulmate, and what I mean by your soulmate is not necessarily like it’s not like a twin flame. There’s a lot of different definitions of soulmate, but just the right man for you, who’s a match for you, who shares your values and who wants the same type of relationship as you. If that’s what you’ve been looking for and you’ve been dating and maybe you’ve been doing serial monogamy and or you’ve just been dating and dating and dating, or maybe you haven’t found anybody to date. Let’s just say for years you have been wanting to find the man that you eventually want to marry and maybe even start a family with.

Speaker1: [00:02:44] That happened. Or maybe you’ve got married and gotten divorced and maybe you are a single mom now or not. But whatever situation you’re in, if you’ve been looking for your Mr. Right for years now and it hasn’t happened, I’m here to tell you that relying on just dating tips and tricks is not going to do it for you. There’s something going on that you need to look at within yourself. And most of the time. There’s some sort of lack of being what we call your own soul mate. First, this in lack of boundaries. There’s some confidence challenges that you might be going through. There maybe even people around you that are unconsciously blocking and stopping you from finding love. Excuse me while I stir my food. So if that’s you, if that’s something that you are experiencing, where you’re you’re dating the same guy in a different body, or you’re dating men who are emotionally unavailable, or you’re dating men who are scared to commit to you, or men that have ghosted you like they seem really interested in you. You exchange phone numbers or maybe you met online or whatever it is, and it seems like, Oh, this could be a really great thing. And then suddenly he disappears.

Speaker1: [00:03:55] Well, there’s a reason for that. And it’s not just that all men are bad because they’re not. There’s actually a plethora of great men out there. It’s just there’s something that needs to shift within you. And it doesn’t mean that you’re bad or that there’s a problem with you. It just means there’s some information that you don’t know. And as a love coach, a holistic love and life coach, John and I look at your whole life. When we work with our clients in our year long advanced group program. It’s called the Love Lunch Program. When we actually do an intake form and we look over your whole life, not just your dating life. Yes, we look at your past relationships, but we also look at how you’re living your life in every area. From what kind of TV are you watching? Who you’re surrounding yourself with? Who do you live with? There’s a whole bunch. There’s like a four page customized intake form that we have you fill out and we look over it and we give you feedback on any blocks or any really, say, obstacles to you manifesting a healthy relationship. We see things that often that you don’t see. This is why you hire a love coach, you know, a love and life coach, a mentor in an area is that they can help see your blind spots.

Speaker1: [00:05:05] There’s things that you’re not seeing, that’s all. You’re a great person. You have a lot of good things going on in your life, but there’s just something that you’re not seeing. And that’s where we come in and that’s what we love to do. And we do that with respect. We do that honoring your journey, and it’s very powerful. So just inviting you to look beyond the surface of superficial dating tips and tricks and flirting tips and tricks, and look at yourself within what we have found that if you want to be intentional about attracting the love of your life, like really intentional, not just leave it up to luck or fate and hoping that the gods will smile on you someday if you actually want to be very intentional about it and manifest and attract the right guy for you, then you actually have to become your own soulmate first. And that’s what we teach our clients to do in our advanced program is the path of becoming your own soulmate first. So start to look a little deeper than just those superficial dating tips and tricks start to look within. And we’d love to help you with that. So thanks for joining me tonight and I’ll look forward to sharing more with you in the future. Take care.

Speaker2: [00:06:11] Thanks for tuning in to today’s episode. Hey, if you’re looking to make a major leap forward in going from single to soulmate, be sure to check out our free masterclass to learn the five step strategy our clients use to meet and marry the man of their dreams without dumbing themselves down or using manipulative lines. Just go to single to soulmate dot com forward slash learn that single soulmate dot com forward slash learn for free Masterclass on how to unlock the love you deserve and a life of your dreams. Also, if you like this podcast, be sure to hit the subscribe button and maybe even leave us a review. Let us know what you love or just even like about the podcast. Because hey, when you leave us a quick and honest review that helps other awesome women, just like you discover this podcast and helps them learn, live and love better, just like you’re learning right now. So it’s a little bit of pay it forward, subscribe and leave us a review. Thanks so much.

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Hope you enjoyed this episode of Single to Soulmate! If you want to learn more about Johnny and Lara or want to start your own soulmate journey, go to johnnyandlara.com.