Have you felt like finding a quality man seems almost impossible? Do you feel like you run into way too many knuckleheads? Well you might be right to some extent, but there is a better way to see this and understand it

WHAT YOU WILL LEARN:

– The current state of men of quality

– A simple way to understand how to look at this situation

– What you might be doing to attract knuckleheads

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Speaker1: [00:00:03] Hello and welcome to single The Soulmate Podcast where we help you, the love warrior or love word to be to go from single to with your soulmate. Living the life of your dreams. I want you to think of it this way. If there are 20 single guys in your age range, in your geographic location and they’re all in one room, 20 single guys, all in your age range or all geographically desirable right there in your geographic area. 15 of them are knuckleheads. They are either cheaters or losers or narcissists or whatever. Or just flat out like total like abusers, just whatever. That all falls under the category of knucklehead. 15 of the 20 are knuckleheads. And three of them are good guys and two of them are dream boats. What’s going to make the difference between you talking to flirting with having conversations, with going on dates, with getting into a relationships with one of the 15 guys who are the majority less acknowledge or the three good guys or the two dreamboat. What’s going to make the difference is that the number of guys in the room know everybody has the same thing. But what is it that will make the difference? You. Your knowledge, your information, your vibration. Because men can tell based on the words you use and don’t use the things you say and don’t say the way you look at him and the way you don’t look at him, the way you move your body, the cadence of your words.

Speaker1: [00:01:58] It’s not just the words you choose, it’s the cadence of your words. He can tell. Are you a healthy, high value woman? Are you a healthy, feminine woman who is radiant and attractive and a woman that I might want to build my life with? Or you just someone to have some fun with. Right. He can actually tell that he may not be able to point that out in terms of like writing it down on a on a questionnaire. But he can feel it. Just like you have some degree of being able to tell. The question is, you’ve been fooled by love before, so you have to up your being able to tell right your picture. You have to fix your picture. This is what we work with clients on. It’s fixing your picture. Having what’s called the the kind of wonky name is a clear decision making framework for picking guys. Because here’s the thing. When you are radiantly attractive and feminine, effortlessly feminine, you have a clear decision making framework. In other words, your picker is not broken. And you have become your own soulmate first, to the extent that you know that you are the prize, not him. Dating actually becomes easier. Why does it become easier? Because you can spot the 15 knuckleheads a mile away and you waste as little time with possible as possible with them. And instead in that room of 20 people, you look at the 15 knuckleheads and you literally don’t even see them.

Speaker1: [00:03:33] So if you’re not seeing the 15 knuckleheads and you’re only seeing the five guys, three of them who are good guys and two of them who are dreamboat, what have you got? You’ve got five times as many husbands as you’re actually looking for. You got two times as many absolute perfect dreamboat. Two times what? You only want one husband, right? We’re not doing the the poly thing here. We just do the one committed thing. So you only want the one husband, but you’ve got twice as many dream votes in the room and and three other guys that are good guys that may be dream votes if you learn more about him. That’s why dating is easier. Dating can become easier. We had a client recently. Just. I just posted about it a few days ago, said it’s raining men. I’m grateful. And you know what? Here’s the thing. There are good guys out there. And if you’re not seeing them, if you’re only attracting guys who only want sex, who are broke, who don’t want to put forth an effort, I’m going to say this and I’m going to say this with just lots of love and respect in my heart. It’s not him. It’s you. Because you’re inviting it in, you’re allowing it in, and you’re putting out a vibration that makes him think that he has a possible chance with you. That doesn’t mean you’re not a good person.

Speaker1: [00:04:54] Hear me? That doesn’t mean you’re not a good person. That doesn’t mean that that’s what you deserve. You actually deserve to have real love. But you don’t know that you’re sending out a signal that says maybe it says I’m free, cheap and easy, girl. Maybe that’s what the signal is or the signal of. I have no idea how to pick men. So I’m hoping that my words will keep you at bay so that I don’t lose myself. Because once I get in, I have no idea how to discern if you’re a good man or not. Most women’s online dating profiles broadcast their insecurities and broadcast how inexperienced they are with men. That’s why they attract a ton of scammers and stuff like that. Now, scammers will will go to everybody. But if you’re doing online dating and you’re dating a lot of of complete zeros, that’s because you’re broadcasting your insecurities, your broadcasting, your lack of knowledge about men, and you’re broadcasting how you don’t know how to pick good men. And that is attractive to not good men because they know that you’re not going to be able to tell the difference between when he’s lying to you and when he’s telling you the truth. I hope and trust you. Enjoy today’s episode. And hey, if you’re a single professional woman who is sick and tired of having great things happen in your career business but nothing much happening in your love life or all wrong things are happening.

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