Feeling like you’ve tried absolutely EVERYTHING you could to find true love but it just hasn’t worked? Many of our clients felt this way before working with us. It can make you feel like your love life is doomed and there’s nothing that can help. But is that really true? There IS hope for you, IF you do this. Listen to this episode to find out what I’m talking about.

WHAT YOU WILL LEARN:

– How to know if you’ve truly tried everything

– What you should ACTUALLY be doing to find love

– How you can still have a real chance at love

READY TO CHANGE YOUR LOVE LIFE FOR THE BETTER, FOREVER?
If you’re ready for the first step towards major transformation & true love at last, head over to https://singletosoulmate.com/call to book a FREE 1-on-1 call with Lara herself. She’ll assess exactly what’s been holding you back in love, how to get what you REALLY want, and if or how we can help you get it as quickly as possible.

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Speaker1: [00:00:03] Hello and welcome to single The Soulmate Podcast where we help you, the love warrior or love word to be to go from single to with your soulmate. Living the life of your dreams. So let’s talk about when you’ve tried everything, what to do. Well, a lot of women come to us and they say, oh, I’m so frustrated. I’ve tried everything. It’s so nice. They even go on and list. I’ve tried online dating, speed dating, a matchmaker. I’ve read books, I’ve read blogs, I’ve watched YouTube videos. I’ve even done online courses like digital download courses. Sometimes they talk about the trends, maybe some of the trends that you’ve tried. Right. Taking a break from dating, the three date rule, the four day rule, circular dating, lean back dating, lean in dating, act like a woman, think like a man or some of the other dating trends like hardball, hard balling or exploring, dating or fast forwarding, or sometimes you inadvertently do pocketing and dating or on purpose do pocketing and dating. And all of that comes to down to a lot of what you end up with is you don’t even realize that you’re thinking about trends doing this trend called ground hogging. And what is that? It’s like the movie Groundhog Day. It’s a same experience but a different day, same type of person, but with a different haircut or a hair color or a height or something like that.

Speaker1: [00:01:38] But it’s basically you’re living Groundhog Day. It’s the same thing over and over and over. So when you’ve tried everything and you’ve been around and around and stuff like that, you end up discovering that you’re groundhog thing, right? So here’s a statement, right? I’ve tried everything. So, really. So if you really have if you truly have tried everything and you say, I literally have tried everything, well, then you’re stuck. Then the life that you have is the life that you’re going to have and mine as well. Just accept that. Stop trying and just admit I’ve tried everything. Nothing works. And then just give up like don’t bother trying other don’t bother like getting frustrated and stuff like that because hey, you’re 100% sure you’ve tried everything. Well, then that’s it. You’re stuck and just move on. Leave this area of your life the way it is and do other things in your life. However, however, if that’s just unacceptable to you, then when you hear yourself, stay the same statement. I’ve tried everything. Then just allow me to ask really. Because listen, if I laid out to you what our many successful clients have done, I’m talking about the ones that you see. If you look at our website, the photos of the weddings and the the stories of, oh, my gosh, I’m getting married at age 53. I’ve never been married before. Or I had two divorces or one divorce or three divorces I recovered from a narcissistic, egotistical ex.

Speaker1: [00:03:19] I had dud date after dud date after dud date and went on for years and years and years. And then I tried this, that or the other thing. Then you realize, Oh, actually you haven’t tried those things. You haven’t done those things right. I haven’t done that. You’d end up saying or you’d end up saying what? A lot of why I don’t need to do that because of X, Y and Z. Well, again, the real statement then would end up being, I feel like I’ve tried everything, but really what I’ve done is I’ve tried everything I know to do. I’m going to say that one again. I’ve tried everything that I know to do. Now, this is a critical addition to the statement of I’ve tried everything because again, if you say I tried everything, well, then you’re just stuck. There’s nowhere to go. You’ve tried everything. But if you say, I’ve tried everything I know to do, boom. Now what opens up is the observation that there may be other things that you simply don’t know to do, because the stuff that you don’t know that you don’t know is far greater than the stuff that you know and even the stuff that you think you know. But there’s a whole bunch of things that you don’t even know that you don’t know.

Speaker1: [00:04:37] Right? And so just I mean, just ask that question. Do you know everything? And the answer, of course, is no, I don’t know everything. So have you really tried everything? No. Then the answer is no, I haven’t tried everything. Now that opens up opens you up for a new and a different reality. If you find yourself feeling this feeling of I’ve tried everything, but after this conversation you realize what I’ve really done is tried everything that I know to do. Then maybe it’s time for you to learn the five vital shifts that are successful clients have done the. The. The shifts in mentality. The shifts in action, the shift in strategy, the shift in feeling, the shift in consciousness that you absolutely, positively must have in order to end up in one of those wedding pictures on our site, or just your own wedding picture that you post on Facebook and stuff like that. Because the truth is, if you don’t have the result that you want and you still want it, then you haven’t really tried everything. You’ve just tried everything that you know to do. Time for something else, isn’t it? Thanks for tuning in to today’s episode. Hey, if you’re a single professional woman who’s had success in your career or business and you want your love life to match that success, and you’re looking to get a lot of clarity right now about why true love hasn’t been knocking on your door, and more importantly, what you can do about it.

Speaker1: [00:06:10] Then you’re going to want a book, a love breakthrough, clarity. Call right away with one of our love breakthrough specialists. So get on the phone or zoom call with you one on one to assess exactly what’s been holding you back in love. Why is it that other people are finding love and you aren’t? And she’ll also go over with you. What is it that you really want and how can you get it as quickly as possible? Now, by the end of this compassionate and professional assessment, you’ll finally have clarity plus an immediately actionable path forward. All you have to do is go to single to soulmate dot com forward slash call to book that free call again it’s single to soulmate dot com forward slash call for complementary love breakthrough call that is for you. If you’re a single professional woman who is as serious about her love life right now as you’ve been in your life, about getting your degree or degrees, your career or business success, all of that stuff. If you want to have it all and you’re ready to finally have some clarity and get a breakthrough and actionable path forward, then this is for you again, that single soulmate dot com forward slash call to book your life changing one on one assessment call right away.

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