Where are all the good guys hiding these days?
Why can’t I seem to find or attract the right man for me?
This is a VERY common feeling many successful single women have. The good news? It’s definitely fixable. If you’ve ever thought any of the above things, this episode is for you.

WHAT YOU WILL LEARN:

– What the REAL problem is in your love life

– What a “picker” is and how to fix it

– The importance of using your picker correctly

READY TO CHANGE YOUR LOVE LIFE FOR THE BETTER, FOREVER?
If you’re ready for the first step towards major transformation & true love at last, head over to https://singletosoulmate.com/call to book a FREE 1-on-1 call with Lara herself. She’ll assess exactly what’s been holding you back in love, how to get what you REALLY want, and if or how we can help you get it as quickly as possible.

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Speaker1: [00:00:03] Hello and welcome to single The Soulmate.

Speaker2: [00:00:06] Podcast where we help you, the love warrior or love word to be to go from single to with your soulmate. Living the life of your dreams.

Speaker1: [00:00:18] My question for you is, do you ever just kind of wonder where all of the good men are these days? Like, where are they? And and how do I put myself out there? Like, how do you put yourself out there to find them, to find that one special guy? And have you gotten to the point yet in your dating where you kind of worry if. Worry that maybe it’s like your picker. Like your picker. Like how you choose men is broken. I’m not working right. Or have you started to really wonder, is it you? That’s the problem. Because you keep attracting these same kind of men in a different body, but you have really no idea what to really actually even do about that if that was the case. So you kind of use the same approach over and over again and you’re attracting guys. Sure, but you’re attracting guys that either like you, but you don’t like them or they’re not attracted to you. But you really like those guys. You know what I’m talking about. So it’s never really a match. And I, I bet that that’s really hard on your self esteem. After years and years of trying this right, it starts to kind of wear on you, doesn’t it? And the truth is here, though, is that how you pick men, your picker, how you pick men? You’re that approach. The thought process is the biggest determinant in the kind of men that you attract, the kind of men that you get involved with, the kind of men you get into relationship with, and the kind of men that you are, the kind of man you eventually end up with.

Speaker1: [00:01:57] So if your picker is broken. No dating tips or tricks are actually going to help you. So if you’re and when I say when I talk about your picker, what I mean by that is, again, it’s a thought process. It’s how you see men and being able to recognize if a man is even worth your time, is he even worth you giving your phone number to? Is he even worth you going on a first date with? Is he worth the time to go on a second date with? Like, so the picker is the part of your brain that is kind of like there’s a decision making framework in your brain that’s either working or it’s not. So again, so if it’s not working right, no dating tips or tricks are going to work because the men that you’re ending up with, right? I mean, you tell me what I’m seeing over and over again with with the women that we work with is that the men that you’re attracting just aren’t commitment minded. They’re not honest or they’re not quality men, men who kind of have their lives together while our clients our clients are you know, these are single, professional, successful, ambitious women who are highly educated, who place a high value on their on their education and their career. So these are women who are achievers and going for things in their lives. But the men that they’re meeting, the men that they’re attracting and choosing, just aren’t matching.

Speaker1: [00:03:35] They aren’t matching with them. You know what I’m talking about? And so when your picker isn’t really working right, your love life is just not going to thrive. And so it’s either completely stagnant or sure, you can attract men, but the men that you’re attracting are safe or they’re just not exciting to you. Do you know what I mean by that? So this is what we see over and over again with our clients, the clients that that start to work with us. So the name of the game really here for you is to be able to quickly and easily weed out the low quality guys and to make the inner shifts, the heart and mind soul shifts necessary to be able to find and recognize the right man for you and to do it quickly so it doesn’t have to this doesn’t have to go on for years and years and years. So imagine what your love life would would look like if you could trust your picker, if and if you and if you knew how to really put your best self forward in an authentic way with confidence to men that you’re really actually attracted to and are excited about. We teach our clients five inner shifts to restore their their feminine radiance, boost their confidence with men so they can finally find the man of their dreams. So there are five steps that are successful clients have used to to really be the kind of woman that would attract a man who would step up for them, put a ring on their finger, and attract the kind of man who is commitment minded, marriage minded, family minded.

Speaker1: [00:05:21] So those five shifts we have, John and I have actually put together a a new master class. And these are the five inner shifts that our clients have used to help them go from single to soulmate. It’s free. But we, we have spent hours putting it together. It’s. 45 minute masterclass. And it’s the five shifts our clients use to attract their soulmate. And so if if that’s something that you’re interested in and not just interested in, but really like you’re really ready to make that shift for yourself. You’re really wanting to make 2022 your year for love so that by this December of 2022, by the holiday season, you are walking hand in hand to that that holiday party at work. Or, you know, you’re you have somebody to kiss on New Year’s Eve. So if that’s where you’re at and that’s like your focus and your your commitment this year, go and watch them. The the webinar, it’s a it’s a masterclass. It’s 45 minutes. You’ll want to do it when you’re, like, focused and you’re not going to be distracted. So you can get the most out of it. But our clients have said has made a major, major shift for them. So if that’s you, I look forward to supporting you. All right. So have a beautiful and blessed rest of your day and I will talk to you soon. Bye bye.

Speaker2: [00:06:45] Thanks for tuning in to today’s episode. Hey, if you’re looking to make a major leap forward in going from single to soulmate, be sure to check out our free masterclass to learn the five step strategy our clients use to meet and marry the man of their dreams without dumbing themselves down or using manipulative lines. Just go to single to soulmate dot com forward slash learn that single to soulmate dot com forward slash learn for free. Masterclass on how to unlock the love you deserve and a life of your dreams. Also, if you like this podcast, be sure to hit the subscribe button and maybe even leave us a review. Let us know what you love or just even like about the podcast. Because hey, when you leave us a quick and honest review that helps other awesome women, just like you discover this podcast and helps them learn, live and love better, just like you’re learning right now. So it’s a little bit of pay it forward, subscribe and leave us a review. Thanks so much.

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