Dating can be SO confusing and overwhelming. You start dating a guy, everything seems great, and then things just slowly fade away. You stop dating that guy, move on, find a different one and the cycle repeats itself.
“What’s going on here? What’s wrong with me?!”, you start to think.
You might be a victim of the toxic dating cycle. But how can you break that cycle for good? Listen to this episode to find out.

WHAT YOU WILL LEARN:

– What the toxic dating cycle is

– How to stop this cycle

– What happens when you BREAK the cycle

READY TO CHANGE YOUR LOVE LIFE FOR THE BETTER, FOREVER?

If you’re ready for the first step towards major transformation & true love at last, head over to https://singletosoulmate.com/call to book a FREE 1-on-1 call with Lara herself. She’ll assess exactly what’s been holding you back in love, how to get what you REALLY want, and if or how we can help you get it as quickly as possible.

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Speaker1: [00:00:03] Hello and welcome to single The Soulmate.

Speaker2: [00:00:06] Podcast where we help you, the love warrior or love word to be to go from single to with your soulmate. Living the life of your dreams.

Speaker1: [00:00:17] Hi there. This is Laura Fernandez. And today I want to talk to you about the toxic dating downward spiral or cycle. It’s a toxic dating cycle. We call it T. D. C for short. So what do I mean by that? So this is what you date. You meet someone special, you fall in love, and he starts doing what we call slow ghosting. You know what I’m talking about? Where he kind of slowly pulls away. He texts his text. You know, he used to call you or text you every day, but his texts become less and less often. So every other day, every two or three days, once a week. He doesn’t call you anymore. He doesn’t ask you out for dates, or maybe he asks you out for one date a month or something like that. But he just slowly pulling away and you can feel him. So and he may be saying like, Oh, it’s just because I’m busy, this work project or whatever, but all of a sudden, poof, he’s gone. He goes to you. He broke up with you. You’re devastated. You’re. You’re heartbroken. You’re like, what the heck just happened there? Right. And so maybe at this point, you decide to take a break from men and you focus instead on your on your self care, on on your girlfriends, on hanging out with them or going your family obligations, or you maybe even decide to just double down on advancing your career.

Speaker1: [00:01:46] You know, I’m talking about and then after a few months or sometimes even after a few years, you decide, okay, I’m ready to start trying again. You get out there and then, you know, you’re super kind of cautious and pretty careful about the men you’re dating. And then you meet somebody special. He seems awesome and you start dating and you may even fall in love with each other. You may even move in together. Heck, you may even marry each other. And the relationship seems to go well for a bit. You’re hopeful, right? But then after another few months, or even after a few years, he breaks up with you, or you break up with him and you feel awful. You feel awful about him. You feel awful about yourself. And that’s just another few months or years wasted with the wrong man. And then your confidence in yourself plummets and just keeps going down after each relationship. That didn’t work out. Do you not? I’m talking about now, and that’s the toxic dating cycle. And so when your confidence takes a nosedive, it actually starts to affect an impact. Other areas of your life. It may even affect how you show up at your work, at your job. Think about that. Every after every breakup occurs, like you swear, you know, I’m just going to, you know, like I’m going to marry my job.

Speaker1: [00:03:20] I’m just going to focus on my career because, you know, at least there I know I can be successful, you know, what I’m talking about. And so over time and over the years, with each breakup happening and if you’re really honest with yourself, though, you know that there’s something not quite right in your approach. It’s not like you’re a bad person, you know, you can get dates. That’s not the problem. You can definitely find men to date, but something in your approach just isn’t working, which makes your self question yourself even more. And on and on and on. That toxic dating cycle goes well. You know what? The toxic dating cycle. Well, the truth about it really is, is that it keeps you stuck. It keeps you stuck. It affects your self confidence. It affects your feminine power, your radiance that you give off, and it affects how you attract new dates and new men. And so the name of the game here is for you to be able to quickly and easily and powerfully put a stop to this toxic dating cycle. So just imagine for a moment what your love life would be like if you could just wake up every day with confidence and power knowing that you’re never going to waste another year, another two years, another three years, another marriage on the wrong man.

Speaker1: [00:04:51] Like what if you knew exactly how to find, attract, and keep a quality man? A quality man who you know how to inspire, to step up for you and to put a ring on your finger. So we have a five step process that we share with all of our clients that that gets them from single to soulmate fast. And so Johnny and I just created this brand new web website, that website, but webinar a masterclass where we teach you the five step game plan that our successful clients use to step into their true feminine power and attract that lasting love and marriage. And most importantly, get off that that toxic dating cycle that just spirals down and down. Now, this is a 45 minute masterclass. Johnny and I invested hours of our time to create this masterclass for women who are ready to step out of the toxic dating cycle and really just finally find love, finally do it, do it with intention, do it fast and do it with power. It’s no charge to you, but it’s 45 minutes of your time, so you’re going to need to invest some time for you to really, like, learn these these five steps. All right. So looking forward to hearing from you soon. Lots of love. Have a beautiful and blessed rest of your day and I’ll talk to you soon.

Speaker2: [00:06:18] Thanks for tuning in to today’s episode. Hey, if you’re looking to make a major leap forward in going from single to soulmate, be sure to check out our free masterclass to learn the five step strategy our clients use to meet and marry the man of their dreams without dumbing themselves down or using manipulative lines. Just go to single soulmate dot com forward slash learn that single or soulmate dot com forward slash learn for free Masterclass on how to unlock the love you deserve and life of your dreams. Also, if you like this podcast, be sure to hit the subscribe button and maybe even leave us a review. Let us know what you love or just even like about the podcast. Because hey, when you leave us a quick and honest review that helps other awesome women, just like you discover this podcast and helps them learn, live and love better, just like you’re learning right now. So it’s a little bit of pay it forward, subscribe and leave us a review. Thanks so much.

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