If men of quality really do exist then why is it so hard to find one!? It’s so exhausting to be constantly running into uncommitted men that simply waste your time. I know it is. You might have tried everything and feel like there is no hope, but there is. You can still attract a high quality man.
Let’s talk about how you can make that a reality.

WHAT YOU WILL LEARN:

– Why you might have not noticed a good quality man yet

– How to spot men of quality

–  What to do now if you truely are committed to attracting a high quality man

READY TO CHANGE YOUR LOVE LIFE FOR THE BETTER, FOREVER?
If you’re ready for the first step towards major transformation & true love at last, head over to https://singletosoulmate.com/call to book a FREE 1-on-1 call with Lara herself. She’ll assess exactly what’s been holding you back in love, how to get what you REALLY want, and if or how we can help you get it as quickly as possible.

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Speaker1: [00:00:03] Hello and welcome to single The Soulmate.

Speaker2: [00:00:06] Podcast where we help you, the love warrior or love word to be to go from single to with your soulmate. Living the life of your dreams.

Speaker1: [00:00:18] Hi there. This is Laura Fernandez. And hey, listen, men of quality do exist, so why the heck haven’t you found one? Ah, right. So the big problem here that we’re talking, you know, Johnny and I have been my husband, Johnny and I have been coaching single, professional, badass, accomplished, amazing, strong women to attract and keep their soulmate. We’ve been coaching our clients for over 17 years now, and the problem that we keep hearing from them is that they just can’t find good men. Like, where the heck are they? Where? You know, like. Like they’re gathered in some one space, one place, one separate city way far away from you or something. Right. But that is a real question and it is a real concern. So I want to I wanted to come in here and talk to you about that. So, you know. You’ve tried everything that you know to do. You have your single. You have maybe maybe you’ve hit a recent milestone birthday like 30, 40, 50 or 60 even. And or maybe you had a not only a milestone birthday, but maybe you had a a breakup, a pretty painful breakup. Or maybe you’re in the place where you have been dating. And you’ve had years of what we call hopeful dating and serial monogamy. So that means relationships that last 2 to 3, four months, maybe six months, maybe even worse a year.

Speaker1: [00:01:55] And they break off and they fade out and it doesn’t work out. And then there’s you know, you have a period of recovery, of grieving, of, you know, trying to find closure, and then you get into another relationship. And so you’re doing your best, but something is not clicking for you. And so you you’re wondering, where the heck do I find a good man like the match for me, my Mr. Right the right man for me. So you’ve tried everything, you know, maybe you have maybe you have tried dating apps. Maybe you have even, like gotten to the point where you’re willing to do blind dates. So you’re asking your friends, you know, you know, bring me somebody, bring me somebody. You’ve gotten out there in real life now that now that lockdowns are pretty much over. So you’re getting out there in real life. Maybe you even have even gone so far as to hire a matchmaker, and that hasn’t worked. I’ll actually be talking about matchmaking in next week’s one of next week’s Facebook lives. So look for that. I think it’s on Monday. I can’t remember. So look for that. But you’ve the bottom line is you’ve tried everything and. You don’t know what to do about that. You have maybe you have watched some YouTube videos, some maybe you’ve read some books. Maybe you’ve tried therapy. You might have even taken some online courses.

Speaker1: [00:03:24] And nothing is working. Nothing is clicking. Nothing is clicking because you’re not looking for tons of good men. You’re just looking for that one good man. That’s right. For you. Right. And I’m sure you would like to be dating with the end in mind so that that soon, that the dates, all the dating stops so that you can actually just find your guy already and ride off into the sunset and go on that Hawaiian vacation or that Parisian vacation and get married at some amazing place and plan your life together. Right. And but where it is right now for you is you’re just wondering. Is there any more good men out there? And what I want you to know and I’m coming in here to tell you, to give you hope. I want to give you hope that, yes, in fact, there are plenty of good men out there, but you have to have the trained eyes. They’re trained eyes, trained ears to see and to hear them to recognize a good man. When you see him, you think, sure, you can. You can recognize certain quality men and you can recognize certain guys with red flags, but it’s those guys in between that aren’t like super high quality, like Brad Pitt and, I don’t know, Denzel Washington wrapped up with like like, I don’t know, a big old heart versus a total loser guy who’s just a player and and out to get you.

Speaker1: [00:04:58] You can recognize those two extremes. But the right guy in the middle who’s maybe he’s not Brad Pitt, but he’s maybe just good looking. But there’s so much there’s so much in him to give and you don’t know how to recognize him. They give off subtle clues. The good guys give off subtle clues in what they do and how they say things, in how they act and how they don’t act. Right. And then in terms of the the the low quality men, you’ve met them. You know what to you know how to recognize the severe red flags and how to stay away. At least I hope you do. At this point. You’ve probably had enough of those and you’re done. So where do you find the good guys in between? Where do you find those? How do you recognize them? Well, it’s kind of like how we say it with our clients is you want to have the right frame, the right lenses to clean these up, the right lenses to look out at the world so that you can recognize good men and. Putting on those lenses. Putting on those lenses is not so easy because you haven’t been given these lenses. You haven’t been given these special superpower glasses that help you recognize a good man and then know how to interact with him, know how to show up as a the kind of woman that could be an attractor to him.

Speaker1: [00:06:38] I got on the phone with a woman. This was a while ago who wanted to tell me exactly all that she knew about men and dating. And because I do these love breakthrough calls with women who are single, who are really ready to turn their life around and they’re ready to change their life and they’re really ready to find their soulmate in a year or less. And they’re, like, really wanting to to they’re serious about this. And so I get on these breakthrough calls. So there’s one woman who I got on the phone with and she proceeded to tell me all that she knew and how she has all the answers. And God bless her, I wish her well, but that’s not going to help her if she thinks that she has these lens on. But she’s going about in the world. And again, this is a good woman, accomplished, professional, badass, educated, but she was she’s making the wrong decisions with men. She’s choosing the wrong type of men over and over again. And maybe she’s actually choosing the right man. But how she’s showing up, at least from what I could see in that interaction, was she’s trying to run the whole show. And so when you’re trying to run the whole show, it’s like you’re taking off the glasses and you can’t even recognize who’s around you.

Speaker1: [00:08:00] You can’t even see them. And if you did recognize a good man, do you think that you would even be able to show up as the radiant, confident, yet vulnerable? Are you willing to actually share your are you do you know how to actually communicate to a quality man, recognize him and communicate with him in a way that is vulnerable and when to be vulnerable and when not to be vulnerable, when it’s appropriate to share, you know, those kind of like vulnerable moments in your past. And when it’s not appropriate, when is the right time to do that? Do you know how to show up that way? And I say this with all due respect, but you’re here, you’re single and you don’t want to be. And so there’s still something more for you to learn, right? It doesn’t mean you’re bad. It just means there’s more for you to learn because you’ve been trying your own way, knowing what you know with a lens that you have, the lens through which you’re seeing the world you’ve been trying your own pair of lens. And so what I want to do is invite you to try a new pair of lens. And so what that is, is really it’s an invitation to get on a love breakthrough.

Speaker1: [00:09:17] Call with me and Love Breakthrough Call with me is a 45 minute to 90 minute. We may go 90 minutes, 45 minute to 90 minute call where we look at what’s not working in your love life right now, what’s been going on. We look at the truth of the matter. We go really, really deep. And if I see that what has been going on with you and your love life is something that we can help. I’ll show you what that looks like and we can go from there. If I do not feel like we are, we are able to help you, then I’ll point you in some other direction, give you some other resources. But this is an invitation for you. If you’re ready to change your love life forever and you’re ready to make 2022 your year for love. So by this time next year, you’re in a completely different place. So if you are interested in this is a free call. But this I’m only going to talk to women who are like ready to change their life. If that is you, if it seems like it’s a match, you and I will get on the phone and we will talk in the next week, next few days or so. I’ve opened up a few slots, so I’m really busy. I have clients that I’m working with right now who are changing their lives.

Speaker1: [00:10:40] One woman just got married the weekend before last or last weekend, was it? Several women in our community are married and are expecting children expecting their first babies or their third babies. We are we are invited to weddings. Another woman just got actually two women in the last two weeks, just got married to one of our clients, Andrea and Corinne. And so we’re celebrating them. And so in the meantime, of wherever you’re at in your life. We have women who are moving their lives forward in their love life. It’s that important to them. And so if that’s you and you want to you really at the point where you’re just sick and tired, you’ve been humbled by your relationships, you’ve been brought to your knees, you want to let down your boundary or let down, not your boundaries. Boundaries are good, but let down those walls that have been holding you back from actually wearing the right lens to see quality men and then knowing how to show up with them and how to be with them. If you’re ready to change that approach and if it feels like we should get on the phone, we’ll get on the phone. And if not, I’ll point you in the other direction, in the right direction. So thanks for joining me here today. I look forward to hearing from you and talk soon. Okay, bye.

Speaker2: [00:11:57] Thanks for tuning in to today’s episode. Hey, if you’re a single professional woman who’s had success in your career or business and you want your love life to match that success, and you’re looking to get a lot of clarity right now about why true love hasn’t been knocking on your door and more importantly, what you can do about it. Then you’re going to want a book, a love breakthrough, clarity. Call right away with one of our love breakthrough specialists. So get on the phone or zoom call with you one on one to assess exactly what’s been holding you back in love. Why is it that other people are finding love and you aren’t? And she’ll also go over with you. What is it that you really want and how can you get it as quickly as possible? Now, by the end of this compassionate and professional assessment, you’ll finally have clarity plus an immediately actionable path forward. All you have to do is go to single to soulmate dot com forward slash call to book that free call again it’s single to soulmate dot com for words, call for complimentary love breakthrough call that is for you. If you’re a single professional woman who is as serious about her love life right now as you’ve been in your life, about getting your degree or degrees, your career or business success, all of that stuff. If you want to have it all and you’re ready to finally have some clarity and get a breakthrough and actionable path forward, then this is for you again, that single soulmate dot com forward slash call to book your life changing one on one assessment call right away.

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