If you want to attract a high quality man, you’ve got to to understand his brain. What is a quality man looking for? Why does he choose the woman he chooses?

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WHAT YOU WILL LEARN:

– What quality men look for in women

– What a quality man wants to feel like when they’re with the woman they chose

– What YOU can do to be in control of attracting a quality man

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Speaker1: [00:00:03] Hello and welcome to single The Soulmate.

Speaker2: [00:00:06] Podcast where we help you, the love warrior or love word to be to go from single to with your soulmate. Living the life of your dreams.

Speaker1: [00:00:18] Hi there. I’m Laura Fernandez, and I am here to talk to you about why would a quality man want you over all other women? What makes a quality man commit? What makes him choose a certain woman over other women and so many women? You know, Johnny and I have been coaching and mentoring and leading single women to love now for over 17 years. And we have been married now for 21 years, moving into 22 years together. And so we have seen a lot. We have experienced a lot and we have seen what it takes. We have studied it and we have experienced it personally and we have coached our clients to this. We have seen what it takes for a woman to become the woman, that radiant woman that can be an invitation to a quality man, an invitation like just like an open hearted woman who can just open her heart and welcome in a quality man who wants to put a ring on her finger and wants to commit. And so many women over the years have, you know, they’ve come to us and they’ve asked, like, why can’t I get this guy to commit? Or, you know, there’s so many people that tell me I’m a catch. I’m smart, I’m educated, I’m I’m successful in my career. I’m pretty, I’m in shape. I’ve got a lot of accolades, you know, from other people in my life and I’m a catch. So what’s wrong with me? What’s what’s going on here? And then some women get to the point where they think that it’s just something is wrong with men and that all men are basically misbehaving women.

Speaker1: [00:02:21] They’re not really actually behaving right. They’re not doing the right thing. And what I wanted to come in here and talk to you about here is what would make a quality man want you and not just want you, but choose you, claim you over all other women. And this it’s a very there are several parts to it, but I’m going to just talk about one and maybe if you want to hear about it, I’ll go into another part in another Facebook Live. But I want to talk about one, the very biggest thing that causes a quality man to commit. And here it is. And if you’re taking notes, you want to write this down, a man, a quality man, because we’re not talking about schmucks. We’re not talking about low quality men. We’re only going to focus on what a quality man does. That’s all that’s all we’re studying here. So a quality man steps up and commits by how he feels about himself when he’s with you. So a quality man will step up and commit by how he feels about himself when he’s with you. So if he feels like he’s a badass and he feels like he can solve problems and he feels like he is respected and he feels kind of like chest out, proud about himself when he’s with you and after he’s been around you.

Speaker1: [00:04:02] And he feels like that consistently in a real way, like he actually he actually will want to commit to you. And I’m talking about an available quality man. I’m not talking about a quality man who is recovering from heartbreak. I’m not talking about a quality man who just got a divorce yesterday. I’m talking about a fully open hearted, available quality man who’s sharing the same values, who’s looking for the same things that you are for the most part. He will commit by how he feels with you consistently, how he feels about himself after he’s been with you, how he feels about himself when he’s with you. Because he is seeing himself reflected back back at him by you. Like you’re kind of a mirror for him and you are showing him by who you are and how you are showing up in the world. You are showing him how he can feel about himself and if he feels good and he feels respected and he feels like he’s actually solving problems because men are the great problem solvers. Not that us women can’t. Of course we can. We can solve problems, but that men are the great problem solvers. And that’s what I love about them. And it works out so well because we women, we like to we take on so much responsibility and we can tend to get overwhelmed and it can be tiring and we can get worn out.

Speaker1: [00:05:31] And so when you have that partner in life that is a problem solver and he wants to solve problems for you and he wants to take care of you again, not that you can’t take care of yourself, but you want that kind of man, right? So when he’s doing his role and you are reflecting back to him like a loving mirror, that, hey, you are successful at your role, he’s going to feel respected, he’s going to feel good about himself. And you know what? He’s not getting that that much out there in the world. I don’t know if you’ve noticed in this culture, but there is an anti male culture and there has been steadily growing over the last 20 or 30 years an anti male culture. So men and I’m not talking about low quality men. I’m talking about just quality men right now. Right. So quality men are getting the brunt of what the low quality men are, the way women are seeing low quality men, quality men are getting the brunt of that. And so they’re being blamed for things that they’re not participating in. And so it’s hard to be just like it’s hard for you to be a woman in the society. It’s hard for men. And this is where we could all be. Like the more we can understand each other and the challenges that the the opposite sex is going for going through, the more we can have compassion for each other and when we can have compassion for each other, we can have a chance to open our heart to each other.

Speaker1: [00:07:09] So I wanted to share that with you because I think it’s a really important point that he will step up and commit by how he feels when he’s with you. And if you’re showing him respect and you’re showing him kindness and and gratitude for his problem solving capabilities, he is going to be getting something from you that he is not getting out there in the world. And that is something you really must understand. And that’s what makes you unique. And I’m not talking about being fake or anything or pretending, but when you’re authentically sharing your gratitude for his problem solving and your appreciation for him, he laps it up. He drinks that up. It’s like water in a desert. Now, there are other aspects of this that I will get into, into another Facebook Live and in another podcast. But for right now, I want you to contemplate when you’re in relationship with someone. Number one, do you know how to choose a quality man? Do you know how to recognize? A quality man quickly. And what I mean by that is like, do you have a decision making framework to help you choose the right man for you? So, you know, whether or not you it’s even worth going out on a date with him? Is it even worth going on a second date? A third date? Getting in a relationship? Is it worth marrying him? Like, is your the way you make decisions? Is that is that working? Is your picker working well? So you’re choosing quality men in the first place, right? And then are you showing up as your best self so that you can be present with him and you can notice when he’s doing these amazing things for you? And then you can acknowledge because remember, when you’re acknowledging him, you’re making him feel in a way that he cannot feel on his own, and he cannot get that from just about anywhere else in the world because the world is beating him up every day.

Speaker1: [00:09:22] And so I wanted to share that with you, and I’ll come back in here at another time and I’ll talk about other other qualities that will have that you want to kind of tap into that are already within you. But other qualities that really accentuate your feminine radiance and your power, you want to actually really kind of like hone those qualities so that you can be the kind of woman that would invite a quality man to step up for you. So you don’t have to waste any more guys any more time with men who are just dead ends. Right. So hopefully that’s helpful. Thanks for joining me today. Bye bye for now.

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