We always talk about what to look for in a man, but let’s now talk about what a quality man looks for in his dream woman. If you want to attract him you have to understand this. 

WHAT YOU WILL LEARN:

– What man really look at in woman

– How to know if you are attracting a high quality man

– What you can do to attract your soulmate

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Speaker1: [00:00:04] Hello and welcome to the single, this homemade podcast.

Speaker2: [00:00:07] Where we help you, the love warrior or love warrior, to be to become your own soulmate first as the path to the life of your dreams with your soulmate by your side. The top three things a man is looking for in his dream woman. You know, we often hear this question, what are men looking for in their dream woman? And welcome to another audio blog episode of our podcast because this question, you know, it gets asked a lot. I wrote an article addressing it and it was really quite popular, so I wanted to update it and share it with you here. So here we go. The top three things the man is looking for in his dream woman. It happened again. Another breakup by the man I thought for sure was meant to be with me. Now, like most breakups, I had felt the subtle energy shifts over the last month or so, but I didn’t want to acknowledge them, you know what I mean? The less frequent phone calls for him, less communication overall from him, less dates, because all of a sudden he got busy. You know the drill. And then the dreaded we need to talk. And of course, ultimately, the breakup and the subsequent phone calls to my girlfriends to cry about this, to whine, to vent and commiserate. And you know what? My girlfriends didn’t have any good advice for me. My friends, they meant well, but they were single and unhappy about it as well.

Speaker2: [00:01:34] And it wasn’t until I found a love coach who had done what I wanted to do, which is to consciously and intentionally attract her soulmate. I finally got the guidance and the actionable advice I really needed, and it wasn’t too long after that that I attracted Johnny. So if you’re single and sick of it and want real world advice that you can do right now, let’s dive right into the subject of what men really want. And recently I sat my beloved man down and I asked him, What the heck is it that men are looking for when they’re looking to find their wife? Not just another girlfriend, but define their life partner. So here’s the real deal no holds barred truth with a capital T from a conscious, spiritual, intelligent, and all around. Awesome man. Now I know I’m a little biased, but hey, you’re welcome. So the top three qualities, healthy men. And I’m going to say this, this is I want to underline this in bold. This in your mind, healthy men, not jerks, not sociopaths, not mentally unstable men, healthy men. The top three qualities healthy men are looking for in their dream. Woman Number one. A woman who makes her man and relationship a top priority, but not the only priority. Now, what John and I say is get a life, then get a man.

Speaker2: [00:03:00] Your relationship is important, and it’s important to continue living your life in a way that allows you both time and space to develop yourselves in other areas than just your relationship. So I’m going to offer you some action steps so you can put this learning into action right now. So here’s the action step for this first quality. Take that class you’ve been wanting to take, but putting off. Do something that moves you and light you up from the inside. Go on that trip that you’ve been waiting and waiting and waiting to take with your soulmate once he arrives. If you’ve been talking about volunteering for a cause that moves you go ahead and get signed up to do that right now. Do something that you’re passionate about now. Don’t wait for him to show up. All right. So the second quality, a woman who makes her man feel like a man. And what do I mean by this? You want to acknowledge and speak highly of your man to him and to others. Allow your man to help you in your life, whether it’s moving that heavy bookcase, opening your car door, replacing the smoke alarm, battery on your ceiling, whatever it is, allow him to support you and then acknowledge him when he does with a genuine thank you or some way to let him know that you appreciate him.

Speaker2: [00:04:24] Another aspect of making your man feel like a man is to gently and respectfully and clearly let him know what he could do to make you happy. Allow him to pick and choose what feels right to him to do for you and then acknowledge and thank him for what he did for you. Now, this makes him want to pound his chest and it gives him an opportunity to win. And men love to win. I love the feeling I get when I acknowledge or thank Johnny for something he’s done for me or for our family. I see how it lights him up. He puffs out his chest and sometimes he says it’s like oxygen or rocket fuel. When I do that and I see how it looks at me with even more love in his eyes. So it’s a total win win. The action step here for you. Now, I know you’re here listening to this podcast because you don’t have your man in your life yet. But you can still do something with this knowledge every day. Look for opportunities to acknowledge and thank the men around you for their gallantry. Chivalry is not dead, sister. It is often just ignored or disregarded. Start getting into the practice of expressing your appreciation for a man’s actions before your soul mate shows up. And a little word to the wise. Keep doing this even when you’re married and with kids.

Speaker2: [00:05:46] Especially when you’re married and with kids. This will help you not only attract your man, but actually keep him. So this action step is crucial. It will keep you in a vibration of appreciation and gratitude, which is a very magnetic and attractive vibe to be giving off. And you’ll also see how good it feels inside of you to really make a man light up like that and to help someone else feel good. And again, this can be a total win win situation. And so the third quality that a man is looking for in his dream woman is a woman who feels good about herself and values herself. Let’s say that again, this is super important. A woman who feels good about herself and who values herself. Everybody agrees. All the research shows that confidence is sexy. And it’s been said that romantic attractiveness and sex appeal is, quote unquote, less a state of behind like booty than a state of mind. So science bears this out to be true. Studies show that a confident, self-assured woman is more attractive to men than women who don’t feel good about themselves. And I know that it’s hard, though, after you’ve had your heart broken, to give off that confident vibe again, when sometimes when you’re single and you’re lonely, all you want to do is stay home in your snuggly pajamas, eating a Ben and Jerry’s Chunky Monkey ice cream.

Speaker2: [00:07:10] This was a favorite of mine. And watch the notebook over and over again. But I have several action steps for you around this one. Being confident about yourself around men starts with just gaining some confidence in yourself in general. I recommend that you start a victory log so you recall and you write down your successes each day. You just get a special journal and log your victories each day into your journal at the end of the day. And this keeps them in your long term memory, which enhances your self esteem and self confidence. And whenever you need a boost of self confidence and to really remember who you are, reread what you have written and you keep, and you refer to that victory log. And this helps keep you focused on your successes, which is a big confidence booster. So easy to forget all the good things that you’ve done in your life, and this helps you remember and keeps you confident. Another action to boost your confidence is to display success symbols. What you see in your environment has a psychological impact on your mood, your attitudes and behavior. Surround yourself with awards, pictures and other objects that remind you of your successes. Create a special place in your home, like a hallway, a shelf, or could even be the top of your refrigerator to display your symbols.

Speaker2: [00:08:37] And this will subtly program you to see yourself as someone who has consistent successes in life, thereby giving you more confidence. Another action is a very important one, and often overlooked is to keep your agreements. And one of the most, like I said, commonly overlooked ways to boost your self esteem is to keep your word. And this is an important nugget from our advanced program. We’ll reteach and practice this, and our clients find themselves becoming more and more successful in work and in life because people want to be around people who keep their word and who are not flaky. Which attracts flaky men, by the way. Flakiness attracts flakiness. Every agreement you make is ultimately in agreement with yourself. Even those agreements that involve other people and your brain registers agreements as commitments. If you don’t follow through, you learn to not trust yourself. You lose integrity and faith in your ability to produce a result. So don’t undermine your sense of personal power. Keep your commitments in the big and the small things and you’ll notice a difference. And last but not least, for your action steps. Take a risk. Take risks in your life. Your higher self is rooting for you. Take risks in your life as a practice for gearing up for your soulmate relationship. The fact is, facing things that make us uncomfortable offers a ton of psychological benefits that researchers call the risk takers advantage.

Speaker2: [00:10:22] Risk taking is crucial for anyone who wants to be emotionally resilient, confident, happy and engaged with life. Now, you don’t have to take up parachuting or bungee jumping to reap these rewards either. You just have to give more attention to those areas that feel challenging and intriguing to you and embrace the adventure of uncertainty. Taking that course or going to that workshop or live event can feel uncomfortable. But you’ll grow from facing that down. Plus, you’ll grow from whatever you learn there, and you can’t have growth without taking a risk. Now, Eleanor Roosevelt once said, do one thing every day that scares you. And on the other side of that fear, on the other side of your comfort zone, I’m going to tell you, your soul mate awaits. So take on the mindset of, quote unquote, my relationships are opportunities to learn and grow. That can actually be a mantra for you. My relationships are opportunities to learn and grow. Nothing more, nothing less. Use them to learn about yourself. Practice your problem solving skills and become a more loving person no matter what happens in the end. So there you have it. The top three things a man is looking for in his dream woman and some powerful and empowering action steps to help you on the way. All right. So go ahead and get in to action. Thanks for joining me today.

Speaker1: [00:11:56] Hey, I’m so glad you were here with us today listening to today’s podcast. If you liked what you heard and would like to discover, if you have any hidden patterns in your life that are disrupting your forward progress, you’re going to want to head over to single to soulmate dot com forward slash quiz to take a quick five minute quiz that we created so that you can find out what your love pattern is and more importantly, what can be done about it to overcome any self sabotage that may come with it. That single is soulmate dot com forward slash quiz for that free quick insight into your unique love pattern and how to break it. Also, if you like this podcast, please be sure to hit the subscribe button and leave us a review. Let us know what you love or like about the podcast. See when you leave us a quick, honest review that actually helps other awesome women. Just like you discover this podcast and helps them learn, live and love better, just like you’re learning right now. Thanks so much.

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