Ever felt like finding a high quality man that truly cares about you has become harder and harder these days? Well honestly, you’re not wrong! The current social and dating climate is tough! But don’t despair- you can still find soulmate love. But how exactly? Let’s talk about that in this episode.

WHAT YOU WILL LEARN:

– Why finding a high quality man IS hard these days- you’re not imagining it

– How to navigate today’s tough dating climate

– What to do to cut through the noise and attract your soulmate ASAP

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Speaker1: [00:00:04] Hello and welcome to the single That’s Home podcast.

Speaker2: [00:00:07] Where we help you the love warrior or Love Warrior to be to become your own soulmate first as the path to the life of your dreams with your soulmate by your side.

Speaker1: [00:00:22] It’s not your imagination. So a lot of times women will say, God, why does this feel so hard? You know, to find a good guy, to find my soulmate, to find love. Why does this feel so hard? Like, I got to do this extra effort? Let’s paint the picture of the context in which you’re expressing this desire. If you’re listening to this podcast, chances are you’re in a Westernised society. I’m in America, so maybe a lot of you listening are Americans. But either way, we live in a, generally speaking, hyper masculine, hyper capitalistic, patriarchal and in some ways, in many ways misogynist society that values production above all else. And love isn’t even an important factor in life. But what I know is that you feel different. You feel different than the masses about that. You feel like you tell me you feel like love actually matters to you and you’re not willing to accept mediocre love or mediocre life. And so while you feel the pressure of this production focused society, you feel a longing for something else, for something more. Well, then you need new role models, new decision making framework, new practice principles, tools in order to resist what the masses are trying to tell you, which is Sit down, shut up, stop being so emotional and just get shit done. Does that feel exhausting? Doesn’t that feel like, well, what is life even for if that’s all that it’s going to be about? Being a love warrior means that you’re willing to be a rebel. You’re willing to say, You know what? Love matters to me.

Speaker1: [00:02:15] It means you’re willing to act on that feeling rather than just succumb to the weight of society. We recognize that that is the context in which we are operating. We recognize that we are reaching out to women that are wanting to be rebels, wanting to be loved words, wanting to say, I’m not going to do what this society is telling me to do. I’m going to go for more in my life and I’m not going to settle. It’s not just the general context of where we are, but the experiences that you have had in your life that have literally programmed you for the type and quality of relationship that you have had, that you have experienced, and that you will continue to experience for the rest of your life unless you do something about it. And that’s where being a rebel comes in. That’s where being a love word comes in, recognizing that, hey, if it feels hard, that’s not your imagination. It is hard. Anything that is worth having is going to feel different than just sitting on your couch and doing the same old, same old thing. So it’s not your imagination. There are a lot of knucklehead guys out there. You happen to be in a society that is almost anti love. Almost anti love. Mother Teresa said that America was the most loveless society she’s ever seen. Now, I don’t know about the most loveless, but man, love doesn’t get as much importance in this society as I believe it should. Laura and I believe that it should love matters most. And so if it feels hard to go for it, if it feels hard to go for your dreams, if it feels hard to want to maintain that high standard of wanting more for your life, it’s not your imagination.

Speaker1: [00:04:06] It is. And you know what? Love wars can do hard things and you can do hard things. You can go for more. It doesn’t have to be like painful drudgery. You can actually have fun along the way, but if you don’t acknowledge that you’re wanting more means that you’re going to be doing something a little bit different than your friends, doing something a little bit different than your neighbors, doing something a little different than what you see on TV and movies and stuff like that. And that living in a way that a lot of people dream about, but few people actually live, then you’re going to make it harder on yourself because you’re going to make yourself feel like there’s something wrong with you, that it shouldn’t be this hard. You know what? In a perfect world, it wouldn’t be this hard. But I don’t know about you. I don’t live in a perfect world. I don’t think you do either. In real life, sometimes things are a little harder than we want it to be, but it doesn’t have to be drudgery. You can have a different experience and starts right now. You’re doing it right now by listening to this podcast, by diving into being a love warrior, by diving into being a student of love, you’re allowing yourself, you’re preparing yourself to have a different experience than the mass is if you feel different than the masses.

Speaker1: [00:05:19] I’m so glad that you’re here. And hey, you can join us in our Facebook group as well. We have a Facebook group called the Love Breakthrough Community, and we’d love to see you there. We can connect you can connect with other people in this tribe of love, words who are like, hey, I want something different. And even if it’s hard, I’m going to go for it. I’m not going to settle for it. Thanks for joining us on this podcast today. I’m so glad you were here. And remember, it’s not your imagination, but that’s what you’re all about is going for more in your life like what you hear so far. Make sure to never miss an episode by clicking the subscribe button now. If you’ve ever wondered if there are patterns in your life in and in terms of like how you relate to men and love, that maybe these patterns are sabotaging your love life. You’re going to want to check out our quick but shockingly accurate five minute quiz so that you can identify your particular love pattern right now and learn what to do to address it so it doesn’t hold you back any more. So you can make progress toward living the life of your dreams and attracting the love of your life. Just go to single soulmate dot com forward slash quiz that’s single to soulmate dot com forward slash quiz for that five minute quiz to identify your love pattern and learn exactly how to unlock the love you deserve and life of your dreams.

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