Love can be tough, there’s no denying that. Even when you find your soulmate, it won’t be all smiles 100% of the time. That’s just reality. But can it get to the point where your long awaited relationship with your soulmate becomes a burden?! Maybe it can, if you’re not careful. Let’s talk about how this happens and how to avoid it.

WHAT YOU WILL LEARN:

– How your relationship can become a burden

– What to do in order to avoid that

– What a healthy relationship looks like

READY TO CHANGE YOUR LOVE LIFE FOR THE BETTER, FOREVER?

If you’re ready for the first step towards major transformation & true love at last, head over to https://singletosoulmate.com/call to book a FREE 1-on-1 call with Lara herself. She’ll assess exactly what’s been holding you back in love, how to get what you REALLY want, and if or how we can help you get it as quickly as possible.

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Speaker1: [00:00:03] Hello and welcome to single The Soulmate Podcast.

Speaker2: [00:00:06] Where we help you, the love warrior or love word to be to go from single to with your soulmate. Living the life of your dreams. That’s a question. Will he find you fascinating? Now, a lot of times women will think, oh, are you saying that I have to twist myself and perform for him and twist myself into a pretzel for him and that type of thing? That’s not what I’m talking about. What I’m talking about is, are you curious about you? Are you curious about what lights you up, about what makes you tick? Are you actively pursuing discovering more about you? Are you investing time, energy, attention and money in your fascinations, in your interest, in your desires, in what lights you up and what you say that you value? A lot of people say that they value something, but if you look at their time, their energy, their attention, their money is not going toward what they value it, often going toward what will maintain the life that they have rather than change into the life that they want. You’ve got to ask yourself that, right? Are you investing your time, energy, attention and money in what you say that you value? If not, then you’re not that interested in you. And how can he be more interested in you than you are? And the answer is he can’t.

Speaker2: [00:01:34] You see women have the ability to fascinate a man because you’re different. You don’t even realize how different you are. You think different, you act different. You feel different. I mean, feel energetically. And then obviously you feel different physically. You see the world a different way. And you know what? That quality, man that you want. He’s searching for that different. He’s searching for that thing that makes you fascinating. That light that you bring, that only you bring. Whether he knows it or not, that’s what he’s searching for. I want you to think about this. If you think that all you bring to a relationship is sex. Note that he can get sex anywhere, literally anywhere. He can go on Tinder. He can buy sex. He can get sex anywhere. If you think that all you bring to a relationship is your cooking or your cleaning notes. He can hire someone to cook or have food delivered to him. He can hire someone to clean. These things are not what you bring to the table. If you think that you bring stimulating intellectual conversation to a man, even that which is awesome and nice. All of those things are awesome and nice. He can get that other places. But what you bring is that fascination, that spark, that life.

Speaker2: [00:03:06] So you have to know love, value, and invest in you so that he can feel that you are worth investing in, that you are interesting, that you actually pursue your interest, that you’re lit up about your interest. And you know what? That brings him closer than any of the other things that I mentioned that he can get anyplace else because there’s something special about you. Yes, you. There’s something special about you that the right guy is looking for. Exactly that. Not that ten years younger. £20 lighter? No, he’s looking exactly for who you are and what you are. The question is, are you loving, valuing and investing in that you that he will see? And be fascinated by you. You see, Laura brought life to my life, and she still does. She’s fascinating to me just by being herself. And that keeps me leaning in guys, keeps me committed to her and keeps me fascinated by her. And frankly, it keeps me enchanted. I’m enchanted by her. And that’s after 18 years of marriage. And it starts right now. If you’re single, you want to go to soulmate. You want to be fascinated by you, what makes you tick? What makes you do the things that you do? All of our courses and programs are about helping you become your own soulmate first.

Speaker2: [00:04:35] And becoming your own soulmate first means that you love yourself not just in a like airy fairy way. It means you know yourself, you know what makes you tick, know what are your triggers and why they’re there and how to get around that and everything else. So give yourself the gift of being fascinated by you so the right guy can be fascinated by you as well. Like what you hear so far. Make sure to never miss an episode by clicking the subscribe button now. If you’ve ever wondered if there are patterns in your life in an in terms of like how you relate to men and love, that maybe these patterns are sabotaging your love life. You’re going to want to check out our quick but shockingly accurate five minute quiz so that you can identify your particular love pattern right now and learn what to do to address it so it doesn’t hold you back any more. So you can make progress toward living the life of your dreams and attracting the love of your life. Just go to single soulmate dot com forward slash quiz that’s single to soulmate dot com forward slash quiz for that five minute quiz to identify your love pattern and learn exactly how to unlock the love you deserve and life of your dreams.

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Hope you enjoyed this episode of Single to Soulmate! If you want to learn more about Johnny and Lara or want to start your own soulmate journey, go to johnnyandlara.com.