Do you ever have doubts about your looks? Ever felt like maybe you aren’t beautiful? I understand you might feel this at times. So here’s a message for you regarding your looks…

WHAT YOU WILL LEARN:

– What beauty really means

– The role of your looks in love

– Not being to hard on yourself

READY TO CHANGE YOUR LOVE LIFE FOR THE BETTER, FOREVER?

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Speaker1: [00:00:03] Hello and welcome to single The Soulmate Podcast where we help you, the love warrior or love.

Speaker2: [00:00:09] Word to be to go from single to with your soulmate. Living the life of your dreams. So the other day, our family, Laura Isabel, decided to just do some kind of mindless entertainment. And we went on to Amazon Prime. We don’t actually have a TV. We just went on to Amazon Prime on the laptop and found an old cheers. And so we watched a couple of Cheers episodes and that was like 30 years ago. So, so long. I remember actually watching it. But anyway, there was a Cheers episode where coach, the assistant bartender, was going to be meeting his daughter and her fiancee for the first time. So not meeting his daughter, but meeting her fiancee for the first time. So he’d never met this guy. They come in and quickly it becomes obvious that this guy is a rude jerk and totally not respecting, appreciating, adoring his daughter. And everybody sees it, coach sees it, everybody sees it, and they end up getting into a conversation, coaching his daughter where he says, this guy is terrible, he’s a terrible guy. And she says, look, I know who I am and I know that he’s kind of rude and jerky and he just wants to marry me, to use me for my position. But look at me.

Speaker2: [00:01:36] I’m not that beautiful and I want to have a family. And this is the first guy to want to marry me. So that phrase where she says, Look at me was so important because she said, Look at me. And then she said, No, really, look at me, not just as my father, but like look at me. I’m not that beautiful. And this is the best shot I’ve got. Look at me. And so he looks at her and you could see it was really great acting, actually. And he looks at her and she’s like bracing herself. You could tell that she’s bracing herself for him to say, oh, my gosh, you’re not beautiful. No. What happens is she braces herself and then he looks at her and then his face softens and he says, Oh, my goodness, I didn’t realize how much you look like your mother. So beautiful. And what is she going to do? Argue with him about how his wife is deceased? Wife. Her mother is not beautiful. She couldn’t her face soften and she said, yes, I do look like my mother. And then he said, Yeah, so beautiful. And she realized in that moment that she didn’t have to settle. Now nothing changed in how she looked, according to like comparing to the magazine covers or whatever.

Speaker2: [00:03:00] Nothing changed in that. What changed is inside she realized that she was beautiful and she didn’t have to settle. So she got it. She dumped the jerky guy. She just even walked out of. They were in a in a back room at the bar. Cheers is a sitcom that takes place at a bar, so they were in one of the offices in the back. She walked out taller, more confident, and she realized that she didn’t have to settle. And I want to say this to you. Yes, you you are beautiful. I don’t care what anyone has told you. I don’t care what you’ve seen on TV or Instagram or Facebook. You are beautiful inside and out. And I know this is a podcast and I can’t see you, but I know this, that the beauty that is within you simply needs to be tapped into and have you realize it. Now, you may be technically beautiful, you may not be technically beautiful, but the goal here is to remind yourself and treat yourself well. Remind yourself of who you are and treat yourself well. Now I want to make something very clear. You’re being beautiful or not. Does not affirm or deny your value. You are valuable and important no matter what you look like.

Speaker2: [00:04:18] But here’s the thing. Knowing that you’re beautiful just feels better. It feels better inside and out and it feels better inside. So it attracts someone who aligns with that, who makes you feel better about you inside. And that is critical to know that you can be with someone who makes you feel better about you, not because they control you, but just because they align with how you feel about you. This is what we call becoming your own soulmate first. So please remember this. You are beautiful inside and out and that doesn’t define your worth in any way, shape or form, but it does make you feel better. And you deserve to feel better about you. You are beautiful, valuable and important. Just remember that today. Every day. Tell yourself that. Use your own name. Say so-and-so. You’re beautiful, valuable and important. It’s good to talk to yourself that way. Much better than talking to yourself with criticism. Or like this young woman was telling herself that she wasn’t beautiful. And then what goes along with that is, I’m not beautiful. I’m not valuable. I’m not important. I should just settle. You don’t have to settle. You’re beautiful. Valuable and important. Have a great day. Talk to you next time.

Speaker1: [00:05:36] Hey, thanks for tuning in to today’s episode. If you’re a single professional woman who wants your success in your love life to match your success in your career, and you’re looking to get crystal clear right now about why true love hasn’t been knocking on your door and how to have that happen sooner rather than later. Like, not literally though, that would be weird, but I hope you know what I’m saying. Anyway, you’re going to want a book, a call, a love breakthrough clarity call right now with my dear wife, Dr. Laura. Yes. Laura herself will get on the phone or Skype with you one on one to assess exactly what’s been holding you back and love what it is you really want and how to get there as quickly as possible. Just go to single day soulmate dot com forward slash call to book a call that single to soulmate dot com forward slash call for free love breakthrough clarity call that is for you if and only if you’re a single professional woman who is as serious about her love life right now as you’ve been about getting your degree or your career success. So again, that’s single to soulmate dot com forward slash call to book your life changing love. Breakthrough Clarity. Call right away.

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