Have you ever felt like no matter where you look, there’s just no more good men? That your married friends took the last of them and you just can’t seem to find them anywhere? Here’s the thing: they still exist, and they’re all around you. Here’s how to fix those blind spots so you can see and attract them.

WHAT YOU WILL LEARN:

– Where all the good men REALLY are

– The problem with a scarcity mindset

– Reframing to change the way you look at men and the world

READY TO CHANGE YOUR LOVE LIFE FOR THE BETTER, FOREVER?

If you’re ready for the first step towards major transformation & true love at last, head over to https://singletosoulmate.com/call to book a FREE 1-on-1 call with Lara herself. She’ll assess exactly what’s been holding you back in love, how to get what you REALLY want, and if or how we can help you get it as quickly as possible.

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Speaker1: [00:00:03] Hello and welcome to single The Soulmate.

Speaker2: [00:00:06] Podcast where we help you, the love warrior or love word to be to go from single to with your soulmate. Living the life of your dreams.

Speaker1: [00:00:18] Pirates. Lara Fernandez and me and my husband are love coaches. Actually, we’re holistic love coaches, holistic love and life coaches. And as you maybe can tell, I am cooking dinner. So I’m in my kitchen right now and making up some yummy I’m steaming up some ooh, it’s ready. Fabulous. Some butternut squash and I’m going to put some bunches of spinach in there just to steam that up real quick. But that’s not actually why I’m here. I’m here to talk about how I have been seeing a big conversation lately, a lot of conversations online where women are saying that there’s just no good men left. There’s just no where do I find all these good men? There’s no good men. Men don’t treat women well. You know, there’s this story that a lot of women have. There’s just no good men left. And I am here to tell you that that is not the truth, that there are plenty of good men left. And here’s the problem with that mindset. If you think that it’s just really about there has to be tons and tons of good men left for you to find your soulmate. What you really want to understand is that you’re thinking actually from a more of a scarcity mindset, like there’s just not enough in the world, there’s not enough men, there’s not enough abundance, there’s not enough good things for me. And that’s a mentality, that’s a mindset that actually reaches out and affects everything in your life.

Speaker1: [00:01:47] It affects your actually your financial status. It affects you in your career and whatever your job or career choice is. And it affects how high you rise in that career and your salary. It affects your levels of health, and it definitely affects your ability to attract and keep a quality man who wants to marry you, who wants to live the rest of his life with you, who wants to just devote his life to you? And so what I’m going to say to you, for those of you who may have that belief, oh, there’s just not enough good men left. Where do all these good men, they don’t make them good anymore. So, yeah, it’s just that that idea of. Not good enough men. And I don’t know where to find them and I don’t think they make them good anymore is an idea that is a block. It is actually a real obstacle to you actually finding that good men that you see. So I invite you to try to start to reframe how you look at men and how you look at really how you look at the world. It’s there’s certain lenses like glasses. See there’s lenses through which you’re looking out at the world. So are these lenses that you’re looking at? Are they scarcity lenses? There’s not enough lenses. I’m not enough lenses. Or are they? There’s abundance. There’s plenty to go around. There’s plenty for me and there’s great men out there.

Speaker1: [00:03:09] What kind of lenses are you looking out at through the world? And so what I’m going to invite you to do is start to be willing, at least maybe you don’t really believe me right now. And you may be just like thinking, Oh, Laura does know what she’s talking about. She’s not out in the dating scene. What does she know? But if that’s you, if that’s what you’re thinking, I’m just going to invite you to reframe this, because I’m just going to tell you the thoughts of not enough good men, and they don’t make them good anymore and they don’t exist anymore. That’s not going to help you, honey. That’s just not going to help you on your journey. It’s actually going to be an obstacle to you finding the love that you see, to you finding a man that will just devote his life to you. And love you and take good care of you, and you will see you as his equal. That mindset of there’s not enough good men is going to limit you and only have you attract. More of the same type of men that have not been your guy. Maybe you’ve been attracting men who haven’t been willing to be committed commitment phobes, or maybe you’ve been attracting men who just weren’t emotionally available to you. And if that’s so, here to tell you that it has a lot to do with how you see the world and again, through what lenses are you looking out at the world.

Speaker1: [00:04:27] So be willing, at least in this moment, to maybe not fight me on it and just say, okay, Lauren’s been married to the love of her life for 18 years, happily, and she and her husband have been guiding women and coaching women to attract the love of their life for almost 14 years now. So maybe she knows a little bit. Maybe they know a little bit about what they’re talking about. So I’m just going to be willing to open my mind to another possibility that there could be amazing men and there’s plenty of them and there’s plenty to go around. And there’s really actually no competition, which is the idea of competition between women. So for right now, just try to allow yourself, your mind to just be open, just open to something else, to another possibility. Because if you’re a single woman, you’ve been wanting to find the love of your life. You’ve been searching, you’ve been dating, you’ve been online dating, you’ve been going on blind dates. You’ve been just saying yes to every possible date, hoping to find you one, and it hasn’t been happening. Then maybe it’s time for a new approach and a new set of lenses through which to look out through the world through. So I hope this is helpful for you and I look forward to sharing more with you soon. And yeah, just open your mind.

Speaker2: [00:05:41] Hey, thanks for tuning in to today’s episode. If you’re a single professional woman who wants your success in your love life to match your success in your career, and you’re looking to get crystal clear right now about why Truelove hasn’t been knocking on your door and how to have that happen sooner rather than later. Like, not literally, though, that would be weird, but I hope you know what I’m saying. Anyway, you’re going to want to book a call, a love breakthrough clarity call right now with my dear wife, Dr. Laura. Yes. Laura herself will get on the phone or Skype with you one on one to assess exactly what’s been holding you back and love what it is you really want and how to get there as quickly as possible. Just go to single soulmate dot com forward slash call to book a call that single to soulmate dot com forward slash call for free love breakthrough clarity call that is for you if and only if you’re a single professional woman who is as serious about her love life right now as you’ve been about getting your degree or your career success. So again, that’s single soulmate dot com forward slash call to book your life changing love. Breakthrough Clarity. Call right away.

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