Have you ever asked yourself that question? You just went through a breakup or maybe even a divorce and you can’t seem to understand why he treated you like he did. You did so much for him! We are not saying it’s your fault, but let’s talk about how you can end up in this situation.

WHAT YOU WILL LEARN:

– How you end up asking yourself this question

– What your feminine-masculine dynamic has to do with this

– What to do to avoid being in this situation

READY TO CHANGE YOUR LOVE LIFE FOR THE BETTER, FOREVER?
If you’re ready for the first step towards major transformation & true love at last, head over to https://singletosoulmate.com/call to book a FREE 1-on-1 call with Lara herself. She’ll assess exactly what’s been holding you back in love, how to get what you REALLY want, and if or how we can help you get it as quickly as possible.

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Speaker1: [00:00:03] Hello and welcome to single The Soulmate.

Speaker2: [00:00:06] Podcast where we help you, the love warrior or love word to be to go from single to with your soulmate. Living the life of your dreams. Come back to today’s episode. If you haven’t watched or listen to the first one in this series, I recommend you go back, listen to the first one, because every one of these in this series build on each other. Now, this is an exclusive inside event for our clients. Love words, as we call them, and we’re giving you access to it because you think would be really helpful. Enjoy.

Speaker1: [00:00:42] So what we’re going to do now, we’re going to do a guided meditation and visualization that we created to support you in stocking up on your best self and really deepening your experience and your learning deep into yourselves today into your higher self. So I’m going to take you on a powerful journey inside your imagination so that you can use these tools that we’re sharing with you today. So this is going to help you to really powerfully co-create your future with your higher power. So just make sure you’re seated comfortably. You’re going to want to have your pen and paper next to you, but you don’t need to have them in your hands right now. So just put everything down. And go ahead and allow your eyes to gently close. Put your hand on your heart. Take a couple of deep breaths here with me. Go ahead and take a deep breath in. Hold it for a moment. Hold it. Hold it, hold it. And release. Another deep breath in. And let it go. So keeping your eyes gently closed throughout this visualization. And in the sacred space of your mind’s eye. Picture yourself at the base of a small mountain. At the base of a small mountain that is covered. With stunningly gorgeous, lush wildflowers of all colours. And as you stand there and you admire the beauty of the flowers and you see the contrast of the blue sky above and around you and the sun shining down on you.

Speaker1: [00:02:41] Give yourself a moment. Did you take it all in and just tune into the beauty of this moment? And as you allow yourself to relax and your heart to open. You notice that there’s a path in front of you? And this path. Is a path of gentle switchbacks that lead up to the top of the mountain. It’s a path that leads you up to the top of the mountain in a gentle way. So take another deep breath in deep breath and deep breath in. Hold it. Hold it, hold it and let it all out. Feeling excited. Allowing yourself to feel excitement, knowing that this this is a summer walk that you’re going on. You’re going to be taking this summer walk along the gentle, winding path along the small mountain. And you’re going to have some powerful new awarenesses and awe inspiring moments ahead of you. And as you take your first step on this path. One step at a time. Each step you take is stepping forward. Is you stepping forward in your life? Forward and upward and onward into a new life and a new you. The next level version of you. So each step you take, you’re stepping away from the old you. So take another step forward in your mind’s eye right now. That constricted you. Take another step forward. Onward. Upward. That scared you? Another step forward. Onward. Upward. The not good enough. You. Another step forward.

Speaker1: [00:05:03] The unworthy you. Take another step forward. And you’re moving forward. You’re stepping forward into the new next level. You. And I want you to notice now that it’s your future self, courageously and eagerly leading the way to the summit of your dreams coming true. So keep walking. Stepping forward. Keep walking up the gentle path of this beautiful mountainside on this beautiful, sunny, blue sky day. And step into your future self now. You are your future self now and notice your future self. How she’s walking up the hill. Notice there are so many gorgeous wildflowers surrounding you and their scent is just intoxicating. It’s like a sweet, like, earthiness and really beautiful, delicate aromas just mingling together. And there’s one particular flower that just stands out to you. And it’s the flower of self-awareness. It’s a bright orange color and just looking at it makes you feel more open and more conscious of your inner being, more conscious and aware of what’s really going on in your life and in your heart. You’ve been down. Gently it knowing that on this sacred mountain that the flower is going to grow back. In fact, the mountain is abundant with so many flowers. And holding on to this beautiful orange flower. You’re brave and courageous and wise. Future self keeps walking slowly up your path. Enjoying the sense and the sounds around you. You can hear the bees doing their amazing jobs, being their super their super power of pollinating.

Speaker1: [00:07:24] They’re buzzing around. Take another deep breath in. And it out. Beautiful. And suddenly. Suddenly you turn a corner on the path. And you see another gorgeous, gorgeous wildflower. And this one is a rich purple. Deep, rich, purple. And this is the flower of tenacity and perseverance. And you happily pick this one and you place it next to your orange flower, that orange flower of self awareness, and you hold your little bouquet that you’re creating to your heart. Take another deep breath in. Let it out. In turn back to your stroll along this gentle path, up this beautiful, gorgeous mountain. And as you’re walking up. Notice the view. See the view around you and how stunning it is as far as the eye can see, there are fields and fields and meadows of lush flowers, rivers streaming through these meadows, magical mountains all around. And you feel your heart lift with awe at this incredible, intentional journey that you’re on. You keep walking and you turn another corner. You look around another in another corner of the mountain, and you see this beautiful, bright yellow flower and it just pops right out at you. It’s such a vibrant yellow. It’s practically glowing. And this is the flower of optimism. Taking it. Adding it to your book. You feel that joy of optimism coursing through your veins and just energizing your walk, energizing your future self. So you keep going Switchback after Switchback turning the corner up that mountain, that gentle walk upwards.

Speaker1: [00:09:47] Onward, upward. Forward, upward. Feeling the warm sun on your back. Enjoying that feeling of soft exertion and your strong body’s capability of meeting the mountain path where it needs to. And suddenly in the middle of the path before you. Your wise future self sees a deep red flower bush. It’s so big, it practically is taking up the entire the entire path. And so there are gorgeous, velvety red flowers, abundantly growing just wildly all over here. And this is the flower of curiosity. And just looking at it and feeling the velvety soft pedals just opens your heart. And just get you in touch with how grateful you are that your future self gifted you the time and the space to take this walk up the sacred mountain today. And you notice that as you step forward and onward and upward with each step, you’re getting closer to the summit of this lovely mountain and you’re excited with what you’re going to find there. And on the way up, the smell of the flowers has gotten so beautifully, wonderfully intense, that you can practically taste the perfume. It’s heady, but it’s not cloying. It’s not overwhelming. The scent is just perfectly luscious for you, and it’s indescribable. And as you round the corner. Just before you’re at the tippy top of the mountain. You notice a stunning fuchsia pink flower? And this is the flower of kindness. And remembering that kindness rocks, you happily pluck this last gorgeous flower and add it to your beautiful, bright and cheery bouquet of flowers that represent what it’s going to take to stalk yourself and to live out your life as your future powerful self.

Speaker1: [00:12:05] So you’re rounding the corner now and you’re standing at the top of this mountain of magic and miracles and admire your bouquet of self awareness, tenacity, optimism, curiosity and kindness. Take another deep breath, then. Hold it. Release. Keeping your eyes closed. Just keeping that moment in your imagination for just another few seconds. Beautiful. And what’s one word? That encompasses the feeling of having allowed yourself this sacred time and space to really luxuriate in this amazing journey up the mountain of your dreams. One word that encompasses encompasses the whole feeling of this time and space for yourself, in your dreams. Go ahead. You can go ahead and open your eyes. And write that one word down. The word that encompasses the feeling. That feeling of allowing yourself that spaciousness, allowing yourself that beautiful, sacred opa. That taking that time to get up that mountain, picking those beautiful flowers. What’s that one word for you? You’re going to write that down. Beautiful. So your future self got you up this mountain to this new life. So what will your future self. Thank you. Your current self, the current self that you are here. What does your future self what will your future self thank you for? Write some of that down right now.

Speaker1: [00:14:11] So. In other words, what is the main quality that you had to display or qualities that you had to display to live to reach this new level in your life? I’m going to give you some some examples. Did you have to display courage? Did you have to display taking a chance on yourself again? Getting your hopes up again. Seeing yourself as as worthy or valuable. What’s the main quality that you had to display? That your future self is going to thank you for. Go ahead and write some of that down. So love warriors. Take another deep breath in. Hold it. Hold it, hold it. And out. Go ahead and close your eyes for just a sec. Noticing going right back to the tippy top of that mountain, noticing the gorgeous view. You’re up there at the top of the summit. Feeling the wind just really gently caressing your cheek. And open your arms. Yes. Physically open your arms wide right now. Keep your arms open, your chest open, and embrace your vision with your heart wide open to take in the enormity of the path that you’ve been on. And look at where your future self has taken you. And give thanks for her courage and her self-love. So go ahead. Now, give yourself a big hug. Take another deep breath in. And out. Come right back to the now to your current self now and gently open your eyes. Welcome back.

Speaker2: [00:16:19] All right. I hope you got a lot out of this episode and hope you enjoyed getting a sneak peek inside one of our exclusive online events for our clients. Now, remember, this is a multiple series of episodes here that are all part of it. So be on the lookout for the next episode so you can complete this, right? Bye for now. Hey, thanks for tuning in to today’s episode. If you’re a single professional woman who wants your success in your love life to match your success in your career, and you’re looking to get crystal clear right now about why true love hasn’t been knocking on your door and how to have that happen sooner rather than later. Like, not literally though, that would be weird, but I hope you know what I’m saying. Anyway, you’re going to want to book a call, a love breakthrough clarity call right now with my dear wife, Dr. Lara. Yes. Lara herself will get on the phone or Skype with you one on one to assess exactly what’s been holding you back and love what it is you really want and how to get there as quickly as possible. Just go to single soulmate dot com forward slash call to book a call that single to soulmate dot com forward slash call for free love breakthrough clarity call that is for you if and only if you’re a single professional woman who is as serious about her love life right now as you’ve been about getting your degree or your career success. So again, that’s single soulmate dot com forward slash call to book your life changing love. Breakthrough Clarity. Call right away.

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