Are you tired of running into the same problem of dating low quality men that only play with you? It certainly has become a much more common problem in today’s society, but that doesn’t mean you can’t avoid it. So let’s talk about what you can do to attract high quality men instead.

WHAT YOU WILL LEARN:

– How to spot low quality men

– Why you are attracting the wrong men

– What you can do to step into your power in dating

WANT TO BETTER UNDERSTAND YOURSELF IN JUST 2 MINUTES?

After over 17 years of helping hundreds of women find their soulmates, we’ve identified 5 different Love Patterns, each with different characteristics that can keep you from finding true love.

Find what your Love Pattern is and what to do about it by taking our free, 2-minute quiz. Just go to https://singletosoulmate.com/quiz, discover your Love Pattern, and learn what changes you can make starting TODAY.

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Speaker1: [00:00:03] Hello and welcome to Single The Soulmate.

Speaker2: [00:00:06] Podcast, where we help you the love warrior or love word to be to go from single to with your soulmate Living the life of your dreams.

Speaker1: [00:00:18] Hi there. I am Laura Fernandez, and I’m coming at you live to talk to you about liars, cheaters and scares instead of lions, tigers and bears, liars and cheaters and scares. So what to do when all you’re dating are players? So there is a little known kind of controversial phenomenon that happens in dating, mating, and relating that most women actually hate to hear about. But in order to finally find your true, lasting love, you’re going to have to understand and really utilize to your benefit. So you ready for some true, tough truth here? So I’m Laura Fernandez. And together with my husband Johnny, we have been coaching single, successful, high achieving women to attract the love of their life, what we call the hero of their heart, their true love. So let me ask you a couple of questions here. So are you getting out there and trying to date and trying to find your true love? But all the men that you’re seeing, all the men that you’re attracting, all the men that you seem to be getting to know or finding or players, or maybe they’re liars or maybe they’re commitment phobes. Is that what you’re experiencing out there? Or maybe you have no problem finding men to date, but finding a quality man who’s excited and into commitment and into partnership and marriage. And maybe that’s the challenge you’re facing. Or maybe you’ve been burnt so much from the toxic relationships in the past that you just keep promising yourself that someday you’re going to get back on the apps. Yeah, but something just keeps stopping you from just finally pulling the trigger and getting your profile up and dating again.

Speaker1: [00:02:11] And, you know, you’re kind of like you’re kind of gun shy to to start dating. So whether you are an avid dater or maybe you’re a dating avoider, it’s really hard when yet another weekend rolls around. Right. And there’s nobody special to to wake up to to wake up with, you know, after a night of passion or there’s nobody special to plan that fun day trip to the wine country or just to cuddle up at home and maybe make a nice dinner together and watch, you know, a Netflix series. I remember being single and coming home to a cold, lonely apartment after a long day or a long week of work and having nobody to cuddle up with no one to share my victories with no one to share my challenges with, you know, And it’s also really hard. I can remember when you finally find a man who seems really nice, you go on two or three or four dates and then he tells you he’s just not looking for commitment right now. But he’d still like to hang out with you. You know what I’m talking about. In other words, he’d be happy to. To to sleep with you. But he definitely won’t commit to you. Right? Or maybe there’s that guy that you met at the party, right? And you exchanged numbers and he never called or worse. He just seems to want to be kind of like a pen pal and just, you know, text you all the time.

Speaker1: [00:03:34] But he never asked you out. That’s hard, right? It actually starts to get a little. Discouraging. Right. So the truth is, if you’re stuck in a dating rut of commitment phobes or ghostwriters or pen pals and none of your relationships are working out, here’s the tough truth. You’re going to need to look in the mirror you see dating successfully. It’s not a numbers game. It’s really not about quantity. It’s actually about going deeper than just a texting tip or a flirting technique. And it’s really about learning about yourself. So let me ask you something. If you cooked dinner for a friend and it ended up like into this bird mushy mess, would you cook that dinner five more times and expect it to go any differently? Or let’s say you bombed a presentation at work. Would you give that same presentation at work the next week? No, of course not. You change your approach, right? You would evaluate what went wrong, you would learn from your mistakes, and you would try a different approach. And so you see, dating is the same exact way. And this is why Jonny and I created our love pattern quiz, because dating successfully is ultimately about understanding yourself and being willing to look in the mirror and grow and and having a smart strategy so that you can finally get off the apps and get on to some dates with emotionally available men and quickly find that man that we call the hero of your heart, the man who makes you feel safe, the man who makes you feel loved and cherished and seen and protected.

Speaker1: [00:05:22] The Met. The man who steps up for you. You see, many women suffer from from dating blind spots. And these are patterns of behaviors or ways of thinking that are really they’re actually holding you back. They’re holding you back from finding love. And we call them love patterns. So are you a dreamer? Are you a protector? Are you the passionate one? Are you the idealist? Are you the devoted one? So to change your dating outcomes, you’re going to have to change your approach to dating. Does that make sense? Because your approach just isn’t working. So it’s really actually time to admit that and find out your love pattern. Find out those blind spots so you never have to spend another weekend or holiday season alone again, and then you can finally move on with your life with him by your side. So John and I created a free two minute quiz to help you find out your unique love pattern and what to do to actually correct it once and for all. So if you’re ready for that new approach in dating, I’m going to drop a link to the quiz in the comments and look. It’s got to be time for you to do something different. And if you’re ready to do something different, I invite you to take that quiz, take a look at it, give it the time that it deserves, and try a fresh new approach. All right. So I’m signing off for now. Thanks for joining me today and I’ll talk to you again soon. Bye.

Speaker2: [00:06:51] Thanks for tuning in to today’s episode. Hey, if you’re looking to make a major leap forward in going from single to soulmate, be sure to check out our free masterclass to learn the five step strategy our clients use to meet and marry the man of their dreams without dumbing themselves down or using manipulative lines. Just go to single to soulmate dot com forward slash learn that single or soulmate dot com forward slash learn for free masterclass on how to unlock the love you deserve and a life of your dreams. Also if you like this podcast, be sure to hit the subscribe button and maybe even leave us a review. Let us know what you love or just even like about the podcast because hey, when you leave us a quick and honest review that helps other awesome women just like you discover this podcast and helps them learn, live and love better just like you’re learning right now. So it’s a little bit of pay it forward, subscribe and leave us a review. Thanks so much.

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Hope you enjoyed this episode of Single to Soulmate, brought to you by Feminine Radiance and Courage Institute! If you want to learn more about Johnny and Lara or want to start your own soulmate journey, go to johnnyandlara.com.