There are certain subtle signs in men that, if you know what to look for, CLEARLY show you their mindset and attitude towards women in general. Listen to this episode to learn how to AVOID wasting more time with low quality men, and how to attract amazing, quality men, so you can find Mr. Right as fast as possible.

WHAT YOU WILL LEARN:

– How to spot these little-known signs (and quickly, so you don’t waste your precious time!)

– What prevents you from seeing these signs

– HOW you’ll choose better men when you understand these signs

READY TO CHANGE YOUR LOVE LIFE FOR THE BETTER, FOREVER?

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Speaker1: [00:00:03] Hello and welcome to Single The Soulmate.

Speaker2: [00:00:06] Podcast, where we help you the love warrior or love word to be to go from single to with your soulmate Living the life of your dreams.

Speaker1: [00:00:18] What to avoid in men and what to look for instead. So, hey, are you out there? Are you a single woman who is dating? You’re getting out there and you’re wondering what the heck to look for and what the heck to avoid. Do you keep trying to find or do you actually just keep finding low quality men who only seem to want to use you or kind of play a cat and mouse type of game, or just want to be your pen pal on on, you know, Hinge or Bumble or one of the one of the apps. Let me ask you, have you checked off all of the boxes of success in your career and really your true love? That’s the only thing that’s really missing in your otherwise pretty awesome life. I mean, you know, you have a lot going for you success wise, but relationship, success, that just kind of keeps eluding you and you’re starting to kind of wonder, well, heck, is there something wrong with me that started to happen yet? Or maybe you’ve been in several relationships that only end in heartache, heartache or or toxicity. And you’re wondering what’s going on with men these days. Maybe you’ve been avoiding dating because it all just feels like it’s just too much and too confusing and too, I don’t know, demoralizing. Maybe you’ve just been trying the dating apps and you’ve done the blind dates. You may have even been doing matchmaking, but nothing just seems. Nothing seems to be working.

Speaker1: [00:01:49] Even avoiding men is not working. Nothing’s working. If is. If that’s you, I invite you to keep listening. My name is Laura Fernandez. And together with my husband, Johnny, we are holistic love and life coaches and we have been coaching and leading and mentoring women to the love of their life and the life of their dreams for over 17 years now. So here’s what you want to know. There are certain subtle, subtle kind of telltale signs in men that tell you his mindset and tell you his attitude towards women in general. And you’re going to want to learn how to quickly, quickly avoid the low quality men and set yourself up to only attract a quality man from now on. Now, but how? You may be asking, how the heck do I do this? So of course we go into this more in depth in our ten week program. But here’s something to get you started right now. So what you need to know is what it means when a quality and that’s an emphasis on quality. When a quality man pays for a date, it means more than just he’s paying for a date. Underneath that is is, is, is a deeper a deeper message. When a man, a quality man, pays for a date, it means he’s demonstrating his desire to be more of a provider, to be like the planner, to be a protector. A high quality man recognizes that a woman and a family, whatever that looks like for you.

Speaker1: [00:03:34] A woman in a family requires an investments. It requires an investment of time, energy and, yes, money, rather than having some sort of fantasy in life that he can just have that relationship and family with all the benefits of that and then diluting himself that that’s going to require no expense or real effort on his part. And so you see, this is the same mindset that a CEO or a business owner who is successful has. You see a successful business owner sets out to create a business and knows knows that it’s going to take time, it’s going to take energy, resources, money to move that business forward and to make it succeed. However, he also knows that the revenue generated is going to exceed the cost. Right? So but a man that proclaims visions of grandeur, of becoming a successful businessman and then is unable to even start building anything that lasts is often called a dreamer. You see, if a man wants to go out on a date at no cost without first calculating the cost energetic monetarily, time wise, the cost of having a girlfriend. What he’s doing is he is demonstrating to you his worldview. So if a man wants to take you out on a date, but he wants to go super cheap or or make it totally no cost, he’s letting you know without saying any words. His worldview on the world. How he sees the world, not just an approach to dating. He’s revealing himself, revealing something about himself.

Speaker1: [00:05:26] But are you able to understand what he’s revealing? That’s the question, isn’t it? So I can talk about this for hours, and we do in our high level premium program. That’s called True Love at Last. But for now, here’s what makes sense to share in this short video. So there are two types of women or two types of men in the world. There are men who prepare themselves to be providers, protectors, leaders, and there are men who don’t. Men who are builders of families. Men who are builders of communities and nations. We call them men of quality. And versus men who were builders of a kind of a one man only throne where women and the and the world are there to kind of serve them. We call those kind of men man boys. These are men who kind of expect you to be, you know, his mom or his servant. So there’s those two types of men, men who prepare to be providers, protectors, leaders and men who don’t. And those who prepare are what we call men of quality. And those who don’t. Are the man boys in the world. You know what I’m talking about, right? So when you accept a date with a man and you automatically intend in your mind, okay, we’re just going to split the dinner rather than just letting yourself sit back and graciously receive from a man providing for you what you’re doing by jumping in and just automatically decided we’re splitting the dinner.

Speaker1: [00:07:00] What you’re doing is you’re actually getting in the way and blocking the man, revealing his worldview to you, and then you’re not able to see what you have in front of you. You need to learn how to sit back and let him reveal the truth about who he is. This is just one way. There’s many other ways and other ways that you’re going to want to sit back and let him reveal the truth. But this is one pretty quick way in the dating world that you can kind of start to see his worldview, see the truth about how he sees relationship, how he sees you. You see, if you jump ahead and you think you must always split that bill, what you’re doing is you’re positioning yourself as the provider in you’re putting yourself in more masculine energy. Now, masculine energy, I want to say it serves you in the work world, right? It serves you in your career. You show up at work. You have to be in your masculine energy. You have to get things done. You have deadlines, you have dates, you have targets. You have people that you are telling what to do. Right. Like if you’re a doctor or a lawyer, a lot of our clients are doctors, lawyers, nurses, even. You’re constantly having to kind of move things and get things done and and be in your masculine, which is wonderful at work, but it doesn’t serve you in dating, mating and relating.

Speaker1: [00:08:28] So when you are jumping ahead, when you are thinking, okay, we always want to split that bill, got to be equal, that kind of thing, that kind of mentality, and you’re positioning yourself in that masculine energy. That is one of the many reasons that you are ending up feeling annoyed, feeling tired, feeling resentful in your dating life. You know what I’m talking about. So you want to learn to attract a man with a worldview. And what I say, world view is kind of how he sees the world. It’s like if he had lenses on, what is his what is he? How is he looking at the world? Right? You want to learn. You want to prepare to attract a man with that worldview where he believes that he must provide value to the world in order to be given back value. This kind of man is the kind of man who knows that he must provide value to a woman. Take a sip of water here. It’s the kind of man who knows he must provide value to a woman to earn that woman’s trust, To earn her love, to earn her respect. A man of quality knows instinctively that he must earn the benefits, earn the riches from the woman. This is a healthy, masculine energy. So here’s the thing. You probably have already noticed that not all men see it this way, right? And what you want to do is you want to learn how to quickly recognize and avoid the men that don’t see it this way, who don’t understand this.

Speaker1: [00:10:16] So if you’re at a point in your dating life and where you’re like, just kind of sick and tired of attracting the man boys, and you’re ready for a man of quality who will step up, be the leader, the provider and the protector. Not that of course, not that you can’t provide for yourself. You’ve already proven that you can, but it would be nice to have a partner who can be that that that equal partner in life and maybe be your king to his queen. Right. So but if you’re ready to learn how to recognize high quality men versus man boys, you’re going to want to watch our free masterclass. This is the five shifts that I give our high achieving clients to go from single to soulmate, really quickly recognizing and then being able to to attract high quality men. That’s a skill. And, you know, you need to invest time and energy and focus on this area of your life so that you can start to really understand these more subtle cues that nobody’s ever really talked to you about before. And this this masterclass helps you to really break that open for you and get you to see the world in a different way and start to have these massive shifts that you’re going to need to be able to attract a high quality man to you. So thanks for joining me today and I’ll talk to you soon. Bye bye.

Speaker2: [00:11:46] Hey, thanks for tuning into today’s episode. If you’re a single professional woman who wants your success in your love life to match your success in your career, and you’re looking to get crystal clear right now about why true love hasn’t been knocking on your door and how to have that happen sooner rather than later. Like, not literally, though. That would be weird, but I hope you know what I’m saying. Anyway, you’re going to want a book, a call, a love breakthrough clarity call right now with my dear wife, Dr. Laura. Yes. Laura herself will get on the phone or Skype with you one on one to assess exactly what’s been holding you back and love what it is you really want and how to get there as quickly as possible. Just go to single soulmate dot com forward slash call to book a call that single to soulmate dot com forward slash call for free love breakthrough clarity call that is for you if and only if you’re a single professional woman who is as serious about her love life right now as you’ve been about getting your degree or your career success. So again that’s single soulmate dot com forward slash call to book your life changing love. Breakthrough clarity call right away.

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