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097: What To Do When A Collective Thought Goes Against Your Desires?

collective thought

What do you do when a collective thought of a certain culture is so great, it seems as if there’s no escaping? In this Q&A episode with Lara, she answers a question raised by an African-American woman about the collective thought that many black women never marry. This is a dilemma many black women relate with.

With this in mind, Lara shares three baby steps you can do to shift your beliefs and magnetize your soulmate.

 

In this episode we talked about:

– How your beliefs create your circumstances

– A testimonial from an African-American client who is now happily married with her soulmate

– Small baby steps you can do to shift your beliefs

– Keeping the faith

– Commitment to becoming a rebel

– Developing a community of like-minded women of all races and colors

Don’t conform to the norms and allow yourself to be different! Hold on to your vision and don’t let anybody stop you from attracting the love of your life

 

Uncover your Love Pattern and stop letting it hold you back!

Did you know that you have a unique love pattern that not only explains your path but affects your future as well? Before you fall into another heartbreak discover how it’s holding you back from leveling up your love life.

If you want to learn more about how your “love patterns” have determined your life in the past and will affect your future, just go to singletosoulmate.com/quiz. Just take the free quiz to discover your love pattern and know what may be holding you back.

You’ll also get a customized report, the ROADMAP to start taking action towards attracting Mr. Right!

 

 

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056: Julie’s Breakthrough Story

In this episode, Lara interviews Julie as she shares her life-changing experience taking our programs. After working with us, she learned to be more grounded and rebuilt her self-esteem as she learns more about herself and men!

In this episode we talk about:

– The continent analogy in connection to soulmate love journey

– How age is not important in finding true love

– Julie’s breakthrough in life and love

– How quality men are all around. You are just not seeing them

– Single to Soulmate community as a men positive community!

If you’re feeling pain because you think there’s no more chance for your love life to change, let me remind you that you’re not alone. There’s actually a prescription for that! And that’s building a relationship with yourself. Re-frame your thinking and you’ll start to heal! Don’t forget to surround yourself too with people who are present in their love and life!

 

If you want to take your learning, growth, and breakthroughs to a whole new level, book a call with Johnny and Lara through the Love Breakthrough Sessions. The call is free and it’ll be the best 45-60 minutes or so that you’ve ever invested in your love life. Go to https://johnnyandlara.com/apply, and start today. Make a daily ritual for yourself. Your life will get better, I promise!

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042: Interdependence vs Independence

For women, independence is a hard-fought battle. Being able to do what you want to do is more than liberating. Independent women who are smart and successful in their chosen careers are not uncommon nowadays. But for love and relationship, it’s a different matter.

In this episode, Johnny talks about the difference between interdependence and being independent. Independence is awesome but at the same time, it’s falsy.

In this episode we talk about:

– The difference between interdependence and independence

– Interdependence with a quality healthy partner

Tragedies happen in life, but when you have someone by your side, it’ll make life’s hardship easier to face.

Yes you’re independent and can do it on your own but think again and ask yourself – do you really want to do all the wonderful things in life alone for the rest of your life? Won’t it be better if there’s someone beside you who is willing to share your life’s ups and downs?

You and I are both interdependent with people in our lives. Learn to have a healthy interdependence with a healthy masculine man who’s interested and committed in you only.

Men Of Quality Do Exist

You’re single and have been searching for Mr. Right. You’re done experimenting and you’re ready for commitment. But you’re not sure where to start and what proper steps to take.

When you have guide, you’ll be able to navigate the road to Mr. Right better.

Our Men Of Quality Do Exist is an eye-opening, controversial, and totally free documentary video series. We interview real men of quality that we personally know and you’ll get to hear and learn directly from them, what attracts them, what turns them off, and how they think!

Johnny and Lara will also teach you the step-by-step on how you can change your fortunes in love and attract that quality man. It’s only free for a short time.

Just go to singletosoulmate.com/men to sign up for this limited released video teaching series and attract your man of quality.

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041: Self Care: Why does it feel so hard?

We all know the things we need in order to be healthy and how to take care of ourselves. But with self-care, it is sometimes not that obvious. Self-care is more than being physically healthy. Self-care is being healthy – physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually.

In this episode, Johnny talks about self-care. Why it feels hard? What actions should you be taking and where to focus? If you want to live an exceptional life, self-care shouldn’t be last on your list.

In this episode we talk about:

– The 4 types of modes in your life

– How to build your feminine radiance

– The importance of loving yourself

– Spending time with other women as part of self-care

You want to feel good but not just momentarily, you want something that would last. Self is more than just feeling good momentarily. Self-care helps improve not only your relationship with yourself but also with others.

In what ways do you take care of yourself? Whatever your ways are, don’t forget to allot time for your own self-development. Understanding what makes you tick and what triggers you. Love yourself and make this year your year of love and self-care!

Men Of Quality Do Exist

You’re single and have been searching for Mr. Right. You’re done experimenting and you’re ready for commitment. But you’re not sure where to start and what proper steps to take.

When you have guide, you’ll be able to navigate the road to Mr. Right better.

Our Men Of Quality Do Exist is an eye-opening, controversial, and totally free documentary video series. We interview real men of quality that we personally know and you’ll get to hear and learn directly from them, what attracts them, what turns them off, and how they think!

Johnny and Lara will also teach you the step-by-step on how you can change your fortunes in love and attract that quality man. It’s only free for a short time.

Just go to singletosoulmate.com/men to sign up for this limited released video teaching series and attract your man of quality.

Did you enjoy this episode? If so, please share it with a friend and let us know by leaving a review. To get notified when a new episode comes out, subscribe to the show on your favorite platform.

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029: How being frazzled, overwhelmed, and stressed affects you

Frazzled, overwhelmed and stressed. These are the three words that best describes the feeling that leaves you no room in your life for love. If you’re frazzled, overwhelmed and stressed, you’re not really ready for a relationship in your life. Even if the most amazing man in the world walked into your life right now, you wouldn’t have any room for him. What can you do to change this?

In this episode, Johnny talks about how being frazzled, overwhelmed and stressed affects you in all aspects of your life. He also talks about how you can reduce these feelings in order for your soulmate to have room in your life.

In this episode we talk about:

– How frazzle, overwhelm and stress is affecting you

– What you can do to reduce the frazzle and stress in your life?

– How a lot of learning becomes more of unlearning

– Connecting more with other women for healing and happiness

– Reducing frazzle, overwhelm and stress in your life

We live in a society where standards are becoming higher and expectations harder to meet. And so we focus very hard on our work. You want to get ahead and get things done but there’s only so much you can do with your physical body.

Reduce frazzle, overwhelm and stress by getting enough sleep when you’re tired. Take a walk or maybe spend some quality time with your girlfriends! Allow your life to get better by reducing your frazzle, overwhelm and stress!

Do you believe that men of quality still exist?

To answer your question, Yes! Men of quality do exist. And to show you some proof, we have a documentary series called “Men of Quality Do Exists! It’s a four part mini series released every year in early February available for 2 weeks only. In this video teaching series, Johnny and Lara will show you that men of quality do exist, how to spot them and how to prepare for yours!

Get your FREE access now at www.singletosoulmate.com/moq and be on our VIP notification list so you’ll find out first and don’t miss it.

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